Iam getting married Aug 07 and we are moving together this summer. Never lived with man longer than 3 months and that was 7 yrs ago and his child later. Iam really nervous about being a good wife and being who Iam at the same time. Iam use to being alone and going to his house when Iam ready to do the damn thang, also spend time with him. Iam I just getting cold feet or is there something Iam not seeing about myself??
2006-06-14 09:48:17 · 9 answers · asked by blackbery 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How long have you and him been together? It's very understandable being a single woman and your use to doing things by yourself and not depending on someone else to take the relm. Its hard to let that go but, when you become husband and wife you have to let that go. You have to be able to trust who you married and believe in him and the vows that you two are going to take. Now with living with him until you guys get married, I believe that at first things are going to take some time to get use to and this includes him getting use to you and your faults and habits. Pray on your union and pray that you have choosen the best mate for you and your child. Trust who you are and believe in the strong woman that you are. God bless.
2006-06-14 09:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by Wifey K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i became married at 19, my husband became additionally 19. particular, there's a definite point of adulthood "lacking"... yet we worked by it because of the fact we adore eachother. we've been married for almost 9 years, have been sealed interior the temple 3 years in the past. in case you wait until you're "financially waiting" you will never get married, there'll continually be an excuse. funds will continually be an argument, whether you initiate out with "sufficient", except you're a billionaire. Do what you experience is powerful. you're the two adults and while you're keen to comitt to eachother, then decide for it. Pray approximately it, ask your Heavenly Father whether it is good. Age, at a definite component, would not truly have something to do with it. in case you the two experience as in case you additionally could make the marriage artwork, then you particularly're waiting. Marriage is complicated at any age, even even though it is likewise dazzling. do exactly what you the two experience is powerful.
2016-12-08 09:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just from my own personal experience...you have got to do everything to not lose yourself. My marriage ended because I became someone/something I didn't recognize. It's not all bliss and a fairy tale...it is serious hard work to be married. I have found it's not for me...but I believe some if not most people are capable of it. You should read that book that therapist on Oprah's show wrote...I'm sure Oprah has it on her website...it's something like the answers to questions at the altar. I wish you good luck and a life filled with love...not just from others...but mainly I wish you a life filled with you loving who you are!
2006-06-14 09:59:29 · answer #3 · answered by Kookala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're reacting to the experience you had 7 years ago...
It seems tricky at first but you can and will be able to sustain your independence but still be in a relationship at the same time.
Just remember to respect each others space, and being a good wife IS being who you are, there is no difference...
All the best and CONGRATULATIONS!!
2006-06-14 09:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cold feet
2006-06-14 09:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by Amber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha u r funny!!! it will be ok like you said its been 7 yrs u just have to get back into the swing of things. congrats!!
2006-06-14 09:52:29 · answer #6 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're seeing just fine...you're seeing your self independance...come and go and do as you please... and you're questioning do you really want to give that up? Being self independant is not a problem for you, getting married sounds like it is.
2006-06-14 09:55:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay!!!... that's it!!!... I want to break things off with you right, friggin' NOW!!!... What was I thinking whan I asked you to marry me... I never loved you in the first place AND I had affairs with your mother AND father... (still seeing your cousin--she's HOT!!!)...
GOOD-BYE!!!...
2006-06-14 09:55:23 · answer #8 · answered by Kiowa1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
COLD FEET is very NORMAL
2006-06-14 09:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by rainbowz001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋