I'm about to have my baby in any time and I'm asking if my husband going to notice any difference ?

Question

I mean when we make love .....

This is my second one

Answer 1

He will certainly feel differently about you, you are a mother now. As far as noticing difference in actual love making, I don't think so. Here are a few sites that might help you understand. Now the first one is graphic, so don't click if it is going to offend you!! It's very factual.






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Answer 2

I wondered that too when i was on my 1st pregnancy.... No your husband will not notice any difference (unless they cut you or you tear and need stitches). In fact I think it is better now than it was before I had the baby. Just remember don't have sex until you are fully healed down there before you try anything (from experience it will hurt) And for the 1st time after wards take it easy. Make sure you do the sitz bath and you use that spray that they give you to speed up healing time and to avoid infection.

Answer 3

After delivery you may expierence a tightness in the birth canal similar to the first time you had sex. This will diminish after the second or third time you make love. Have him use a little vaseline or other lubricant. That will help tremendously in getting you and him back to sexuality.

Answer 4

Thankfully the vagina is very elastic and by the time you are healed from birth he should not notice much difference. Make sure you are doing your kegal exercises now, not only will it help your muscles in birth, but it will help you return back to your old size and can make lovemaking more pleasurable for both of you.

Answer 5

As long as you wait at least 6 weeks after giving birth and do your kegels, there should be no difference. I, in fact, advocate waiting at least 8 weeks after giving birth before even attempting to have sex. If everything goes well, both of you should be too tired and too happy with your new baby to even think about it.

Answer 6

That always is different in each situation. He might complain that you don't make love as often, or he might complain that you aren't as energetic as you were. However, if you're dr. does as he is supposed to do during and after your delivery, and if you practice your kiegels, you should be just fine. And here's a twist from personal experience, practice your kiegels during lovemaking, THAT is one difference he will most certainly notice. :D

Answer 7

After you heal there are exercises that you can do. My boyfriend actually said I feel better now. If you have muscle control now you will still have it after. You just have to know how to work it. I am not being funny, it is true. You would be surprised at how many women don't know how to use there muscles during sex and to help make themselves cu*.

Answer 8

Everyone's bodies react differently post-pregnancy. But, I truly believe that those stories about being bigger and too loose are just garbage !!! If you haven't heard of Kegel exercises, look them up. Try them. Your husband will be fine if he has any consideration whatsoever

Answer 9

make sure u wait until the dr saqy u can make love and also msot important, WAIT until u are ready. On a personal note i was EXTREMELY tight the first time, so make sure he takes it very easy with ya. Tell him to be gentle ok :) lubricant might helpa little during that time ok hun.

Answer 10

Everyone is different. Most likely he won't notice any difference. Make sure you do your kegel exercises. It will make you feel proactive about your concern, if nothing else. Don't worry. He loves you.