age gap problem?

Question

is it wrong to go out with a man who is about 10 years older then you.
me being 19 and he being 29?

Answer 1

It isn't that it is wrong, it is just that it won't be easy. The problem is that over the next 6 years you are going to go through a lot of experiences and changes. At 29 this guy has been there and done that already and won't want to do all those things over again. This means that if you choose to be with him you will be missing out on a lot of the experiences that your friends are going to be having. You have to decide if it is worth it to you so that you won't look back in 15 years and wish you had done this or that and end up resenting this guy for you having to have given up experiencing so many things in life at such an early age.

Answer 2

Nothing wrong with it...Whats nmore important is your maturities and interests match up...

Could be a case of he was shy and did get to do much then got in a vicious circle. So despite him being ten yesrs older... You may have vastly more sex and relationship experience then him... Its o much easier for a girl... You don't have to do the chatting up and girls get so many offers...

On the other hand if into kids, marraige and overly mature then not so hot as you want all the fun stuff... Get the idea.?

Answer 3

really just do it i am 16 years younger than my husband i am 29 he is 46 and we have never had a problem with this. Also to those who think you may lose out on life experiences by being with someone older you wont if you do stuff together.Plus I did all mine before I settled down. FYI older men are more mature and secure much less likely to treat you badly and they are also generally house trained and polite and less likely to cheat on you.Good luck with your man I hope you have a long and happy relationship x x x x

Answer 4

I don't think there is anything wrong with that. The only thing you have to watch out for is that a man who is older is more set in his ways. So, be careful that he doesn't try to subtly change you to suit his ideals. Make sure that you don't lose yourself! And have fun! An older man can be a great experience.

Answer 5

Noooo! Unless his tooo mature for you than yea. But other than that nooo! If you guys are compatible than theres nothing wrong with that. Im dating a guy thats ten years older than me, and there seems to be no problem now. The older the man is the more experience and wisdome he has. And he will know how to treat her more, and appreciate her more

Answer 6

Nothing wrong with that...
Women are much more grown and mature than men, so maybe the gap wont be as big as you think and if you love the guy, don't loose the chance...
He must be thinking serious now...

Answer 7

Nothing wrong with it, go for it.

I am seeing a woman who is 23 years older than me. There are all the same when they are sat on my face!

Answer 8

Not at all, age is nothing but a number, usually us females need to go out with older men, as men our own age's are too immature - Go girl!!

Answer 9

girl go with your heart ! im 21 and my love is 36 thats a 15 year difference. and am happy in love I dont have to deal with immature head aches. Now if you got you a older person and its like being with lil boy then why do it besides that go for yours girl!!!

Answer 10

i dont think it is wrong it really depends upon if you want to be with this man and feel that you and him will work together. personnally i think you should go for it! My father was 32 when he got with his 16 year old girlfriend and now there married with 2 kids and happy.