why is he so unfair?!?

Question

my promotion is tommorrow...and everyone eles is doing and going somewhere after...so i asked my dad if we can do somthing too..
he siad"no"beacuse he was busiy...going to church or somthing..and i begged him to go with me...he didnt want to...and my sister she had this academi thingy and he went there...and it was on the smae date..i was so sad when he siad that...and he wanted me to walk and promotion day..and my sister said"shut up!!!you were post to graduate from middle school!!its your standard!!"
i was so sad....what would be your reaction if they did that to you?

Answer 1

because he only thinking about himself

Answer 2

Well sweetheart life can be cruel sometimes and unfair. Parents are not always right. Yet your father will not realize that he is wrong for this type of behavior until long after you are grown and possible have children of your own. There is a saying hine sight is 20/20 this is true. For now all you can do is tell Dad that he has hurt your feelings and that you want him to spend time with you as well. Good luck and God bless.

Answer 3

I would be all "Damn, I sure need to learn how to form cohesive sentences"

What do you care if somebody see's a promotion? I didn't have a ceremony or anything last time I got promoted.

Just take the raise and shutup about it already.
Life ain't fair, get used to it.

Answer 4

First of all, I'd get my own place to live. Then find myself a boyfriend that is willing to listen and share the accomplishments in my life. Then cut the ties that find it so easy to hurt me. In other words get a life and move forward cause you are being held back by people who see you as beneath them.

Answer 5

being korean myself all I can say is that's how our folks are. I'm pretty sure he went wit hyour sister since it's an academic thing and I'm sure you know how korean pareants are about school so that's probably why. I find it odd though that he wouldn't go to your promotion since it's an acheivement from your work. weird. My dad would be all over my promotion if i would ever get one.

Answer 6

I have almost no idea what you are talking about because clearly you lack the ability to spell and punctuate properly. I suspect you shouldn't be promoted to the next grade level in school.

Answer 7

Sometimes you have search for happiness in the hearts of people that love you that do not have the same genes, because family can hurt you the most and if they would have done that to me, it would hurt, but sharing with someone who loves me just as much heals the wounds sometimes.

Answer 8

One important lesson I have learned....
When someone acts this way, it is their problem, not yours. You have a right to be proud and to revel in your own happiness. Don't let others get you down. Hold your head high, do what it takes to get there, be proud and be happy. Everything else will fall into place. Congratulations....there are others in the world who are proud of you and your accomplishments. Unfortunately, sometimes people are so wrapped up in themselves, or they are actually jealous of you, but don't let it get you down. You've earned this, so enjoy it!

Answer 9

Sounds like Daddy is picking favorites- tell him you don't appreciate this at all and he better wise up before his oprotunities to have a relationship with you disapate.

Answer 10

could be jelousy, or if you're the middle child, then you probably got that middle child syndrome. be happy for yourself cause you are the one that makes it happen, no one else is going to determine what you do in your life. be happy, i'm happy, congrats on your promotion!!!!!!!!!

Answer 11

Go with friends and be happy, it's his loss if he doesn't want to be there. Just go!!