All my ex's say that I am a great guy. Treated them better than ever before. Problem is they all leave sooner or later for bad guys. I think I fool them when we meet because I am 6ft 200lbs and not fat. In good shape, shave my head and ride a Harley. I am a bad boy in some areas just not with women. I treat women with respect and I romance them. Romancing is a turn on for me. I am seriously thinking of changing that and becoming an all around bad boy. SHOULD I DO THAT? Nice hasnt worked yet!
2006-06-14 09:35:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, stay nice! Any women who want the bad boy just really aren't ready for any relationship and they know the bad boys don't want one anyway. And... you don't live near Idaho do ya? :)
2006-06-14 09:42:13 · answer #1 · answered by LIL NIX 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't change. Women only want "bad boys" for a while. Most women never consider marrying one because obviously they want to be treated with respect and love. Keep going on with the nice and the right woman will come around.
2006-06-14 16:39:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend had the same problem. He tried changing and being an ****** to women, but couldn't really. You are who you are. And a woman (women) who will appreciate that are surely out there (I know I would). Are you spontaneous? A lot of time its the spontaneity and fun that is missing in the "good guys". Otherwise, it is a great accomplishment to be good to people in our day and age, so you should be proud of it, not trying to change yourself!
2006-06-14 16:41:57 · answer #3 · answered by Myralys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont know how many times i hear guys say that. its so sad. let me tell you something, girls are a lot like guys. see to guys they can hook up with a s!ut but when it comes to settling down they usually want a good girls. girls are the same way, if we wanna have fun we usually go for the bad boys but when we want something serious it's all about the not so bad guys. don't change. someone out there will want you - believe me, there are enough jerks out in the world - don't become one of them. in the end it's not worth it.
2006-06-14 16:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by dvlndskyz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't change why would you, you would want to fake who you are. Those women just like bad boys. You still haven't found that right girl yet. Because their women who love men like you. You just have to keep looking. Trust me on this one.
2006-06-14 16:39:40 · answer #5 · answered by Mandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um I honestly dont think its the "nice thing" that drives these women away. there must be something else- because - and trust me on this one : when the girl wants to settle down and actually be serious/get married - she WILL want a nice guy. YOu must be dating sorority material college girls who want nothing else but party. A few years down the road you will really appreceate ( and so will they) your own personality - especially since you say its super romantic. Women love that! - young girls dont
2006-06-14 16:41:45 · answer #6 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hear that often from my male friends and I cant relate to that, my man is the sweetest ever and bends over backwards for me. he treats me like a princess and i love it....so NO dont change!! there is someone out there waiting for you, to take you the GREAT way you are! I appreciate the Good Boys!!
ps..you sound sexy too....=)
2006-06-14 16:40:46 · answer #7 · answered by baseballmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change, stay just the way you are. You just have to be patient. Eventually as women start to want to settle down, you're going to be the type of guy they're going to want. Just give it time, and continue to do what you're doing.
2006-06-14 16:38:01 · answer #8 · answered by Flagstones925 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay the way you are, be yourself. that's the only way you'll meet a woman who cares about the real you. maybe you need to look for women somewhere else instead of where you're finding all the girls who end up leaving you.
2006-06-14 16:40:21 · answer #9 · answered by justplaying 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! don't change. It's just that you haven't met that right woman. Don't change because of past experiences you seem like a great guy. Don't give up. When you do find her you'll be glad you didn't.
2006-06-14 16:39:13 · answer #10 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋