I just met this guy and he is from Texas, I really like him but he is 30. He is such a southern gentlemen, I know he likes me too but he feels weird about our age diffreence i really dont think it should matter.
2006-06-14 09:32:39 · 11 answers · asked by brokenchic19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I met a wonderful lady just after my separation. I was 30 and she was 19. I was able to re-live my early 20 days and had a great time. I was mature enough to let her know what decisions to make for her future and she reminded me to never forget your past.
My suggestion to you is to go for it. Teach him to stay young at heart. He will definitely get some looks from his peers. But if he can handle criticism, he'll be ok.
Good luck with this adventure.
2006-06-14 09:45:19 · answer #1 · answered by just me 3 · 13⤊ 4⤋
It definitely would be a difficult relationship. The problem is that over the course of the next 5 years or so you will go through a lot of life changes and experiences. A 30 year old has already been there done that and won't want to experience most of those things over again. If you decide to be with him you will probably have to give up on experiencing a lot of things that your friends will be doing as part of growing up. Only you can decide if this is what you want but think it through because you don't want to look back 15 years from now and wonder why you gave up so much so early in your life and resent him for it.
2006-06-14 09:42:23 · answer #2 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this but I'm going to say yes. You and him are at different stages in your life. So what is he after, I wonder. He's either trying to start a relationship with you or get into your pants.
I don't know what's worse, being tied down at 19 or getting played by a 30 year old.
Either way, I don't think it's the best idea, cause I don't think what you want and what he wants are compatilible no matter how you both word it.
2006-06-14 09:37:38 · answer #3 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, certain and no. My grandmother remarried in 1986, the three hundred and sixty 5 days i replaced into born. they're precisely the age distinction of what you and this horny guy are. 12 years is distinction, immediately it would not actual remember in case you 2 love one yet another and are comfortable with this age hollow. My grandparents were married ever when you consider that, yet now that my grandma remains in her Sixties and my grandpa in his 80's, they don't get to do as a lot stuff as they opt to do. in case you adore one yet another, i'd say bypass for it and sturdy success, yet no matter if that's only a fling, i'd'nt probability getting my heart broke. sturdy success!
2016-10-30 21:50:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all there is a big age difference between u 2 and if u guys start dating both of u will c it in the relationship.
2006-06-14 09:38:39 · answer #5 · answered by Realist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wellll
it depends really on how old you make each other feel
if you both feel the same age then there shouldnt be a problem
if you feel comfortable with each other then wait until you're 25 and hes 35 then get married if you wanna but nothing earlier
2006-06-14 09:37:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the real ? is why would a 30 yr old man date an 18 yr old? what are his insecurities? and hangups? can he not relate to people his own age?
2006-06-14 09:52:01 · answer #7 · answered by darkspirit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure you want to be dating someone who is that much older then you? he's going to have already experienced everything your about to. it may be awesome to be with someone who is already established in the world...but it takes way all the excitement of being young!
2006-06-14 09:36:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're comfortable with the fact that he most likely wants you for sex, sure.
2006-06-14 09:34:23 · answer #9 · answered by sharky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be a total creep factor but you do whatever you want to.
2006-06-14 09:37:39 · answer #10 · answered by Skye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋