i bought a 12 pack of condoms for 99 cents at the drug store. they were so cheap cause the item was discontinued but the condoms were still good to use. I checked out the box it seemed ok they had not expired to i bought them. i took them to my boyfriends house the following morning. that night when i went home he called me and started yelling. he said did you think i was not going to count them? i was like what are you talking about? he said 3 condoms were missing from the box but i never even opened the box. now he wont even talk to me. what should I do? help please!!!
2006-06-14 09:11:33 · 17 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell hom the truth. If you have nothing to be guilty about then tell him what happened. Tell him the story you just told us. And if he doesn't believe it then it's his problem. Guys just get really jealous really quickly. Just be honest and that's all you can do.
2006-06-14 09:16:30 · answer #1 · answered by peek a boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you bought the condoms on sale. Show him the receipt. Let him know the real deal. If he doesn't answer your calls or visits, maybe you should write him an email. Most people will read them even if they are pissed off at the other person. Good Luck!
2006-06-14 16:18:13 · answer #2 · answered by LiZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all he is stupid & then what about you how could you let him yell at you. Boyfriend and girlfriend means understanding with each other. If he doesn't know how to treat a person with respect then has no right to be your boyfrind. Treat your self with respect. You are very nice. And don't let anyone take over you like this. I could understand your feelings but be fare enough with your self too. You need respect and then all other isues. Yell back at him why he is laying to you and ask why are you doing this do you wanna move forward without any reson. Tell him I won't let you dump me without any reson. Stand for yourself.
2006-06-14 16:24:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him where you bought it and that you never opened them. Ask him "do you think I would be so stupid as to give you a 12 pack of condoms and take or use three?" "Do you actually think I would do that to you?" And leave it at that.
2006-06-14 16:19:24 · answer #4 · answered by D baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are being honest (explained everything) and he doesn't want to believe you he has trust issues, today is the condoms tomorrow is something else. You will get nothing but drama being with someone like that. Dump him.
2006-06-14 16:16:05 · answer #5 · answered by crazy_monkey_jr010 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you try to explain. If there are three condoms gone from the box who did he use them on. I looks like he is deliberately trying to get rid of you and is probably been cheating already if he is accusing you of cheating. Most people who cheat find it easy to blame their partner for their own guilt.
2006-06-14 16:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave his dumb *** alone because he probably used the condoms with some other chic and he know you know how many are in the box some he's trying to fault you before you get him.
2006-06-14 16:16:37 · answer #7 · answered by NESHA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time to be angry. In a week, call him and talk to him about it. If he won't talk to you, let it go. Unless he has a reason to be suspicious, this incident doesn't warrant a break up. He continues to ignore you, he probably was searching for a reason to break it off before this happened.
2006-06-14 16:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by sundaymorningbooks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to explain to him that you were trying to be cheap and practice safe sex. You really may not need to explain yourself to him though b/c he obviously has trust issues if he counted the condoms. He may not be what right for you at this point & time in your life anyway. you don't need ne1 that is going to be insecure.
2006-06-14 16:19:35 · answer #9 · answered by philly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, maybe that was why they were on a discounted shelf people do tamper with the box if they just need a couple!
2006-06-14 16:15:22 · answer #10 · answered by M J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋