i dont get sex all that often from my wife but when i do it is over with itn 5 minutes or so. I am in my 30's now so it normal or am i just quick on the draw.
2006-06-14 09:06:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pull out
2006-06-14 09:09:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well pretty much every guy has different stamina but.... busting that quick definitely seems too short.
I suggest (if you don't) to exercise and get in good shape, doing lots of cardio and stuff. I also suggest doing clenching exercises. After a while you'll build up some strength in your muscles down there, but that honestly won't stop you from busting too quick.
There's been a ton of research into the subject, and some scientists/researchers/whathaveyou agree that many people with premature ejaculation have psychological problems dealing with self-esteem and self-worth.
It could be happening for a number of reasons. Get in better shape and take it from there.
2006-06-14 09:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by sharky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I took a sex class in college and our professor told us guys how to become better lovers. She explained to us the importance of stamina and how to "practice" if you have problems lasting long. What you do is masterbate until you feel like you are about to c u m. When you are about to c u m you stop, and gently squeeze the top of your dick using your thumb and middle and pointer finger. You hold it until the feeling goes away, and continue to masterbate again. Repeat this process like 3-4 times. What this does is that it trains your mind and body so when you are having sex you know when you are about to c u m and you can tell yourself to hold it. I'm tellin you man, if you invest the time it pays off. My sex game was amazing after I did this and I was lasting forever.
Someone else above said something about exercising and about clenching. Both are true. Our teacher told us about clenching too. It strengthens the same muscles used to ejaculate. I was told to do 20 a day anymore gets tiring. Just act like your holding back from taking a piss and hold that for like 5 secs, release and do it again.
Best of luck to ya.
2006-06-14 09:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by LL Cool J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're lucky dude...
At least you can get one off...
I have to have sex for an hour minimum before I'll get one off.
Most of the time it's much longer than that.
I haven't figured it out though... I'm a little bigger down there, probably right around 9 inches, and pretty thick... and I'm not sure if that is why it is hard for me to get off... maybe the stimulation is not as intense if you are bigger?
2006-06-14 10:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by Marc H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-08 21:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
few things... 1: Keigels, look them up. 2. prior orgasm. Either masturbate prior to intercourse or recieve oral sex during foreplay. After the first ejaculation, once you regain erection you should be able to last longer. I know the longest sex I've had is when my fiance blows me prior to intercourse...
2006-06-14 09:11:15 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about baseball during sex
2006-06-14 09:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by Philip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
focus on pleasing her - when the focus is on you only let it go on for a few minutes and then go back to her - practice pleasing her will help you slow down
2006-06-14 09:11:09 · answer #8 · answered by Greg R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you concentrate on pleasing your partner and not on your self gratification, everything else will fall into place.
2006-06-14 09:12:47 · answer #9 · answered by stangodango 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your strange.ask a health professional
2006-06-14 09:09:35 · answer #10 · answered by littleman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋