I love my boo-b to death, but i feel like i should be leaving him. Ever time I try to leave he tell me that he need and want me, he working hard to keep us together and give me the things i need adn want in life because he feel that I sholud be treated like a queen. I love him and i know he love me but its just that we dont have time for eachother any more. Foreal i was listening to what some peopel told me last time up here (meet new people) and I did bu t I still dont know what to do.
2006-06-14 09:03:31 · 15 answers · asked by ms.hershey06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do you want him or what he can BUY for you??
2006-06-14 09:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to other people, trust me there are not many great guys out there these days, this guy sounds liek a guy everyone wants and you've got that unless you really have lost feeling for him do hima favour and leave him be because imagine what your putting him through, but if you do still have feelings for him then y not try and make it work. My boyfriend is similar to yours and i would not give him up for the world he treats me like a queen and i am so greatful because all my friends guys forget their birthdays and don't tell them how they feel about them. Be greatful you have someone so nice and sweet he seems like an angel. Good Luck
2006-06-14 16:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by xxsummerxx232 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that you have nothing to do with your own time. Why don't you get a career, a better job or something like. No one ever lived out of love only. Life needs money and a relationship needs money to buy what you need in life. It sounds to me like you have nothing to offer him. If you don't get with the program he will find some other girl who has real ambition and he will drop you like a bad habit. Men like to succeed in life and you seem to be a drag for him. If you really love him, then you must learn to be an asset and not a burden. Love is good, but money makes the world go around; comprende?
Sincerely,
Mr. M.
2006-06-14 16:15:15 · answer #3 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the man is giving you everything you want and your happy stay with him.Work a better schedule.Make time for each do what ever you have to do to spend time with him.It is so hard to find true love.Once you found you don't ever want to lose it.New people will only satisfy you for the time being.Maybe not even then because your boo has your heart so work it out girl don't let go.
2006-06-14 16:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by NESHA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really understand what's so bad about it. Why should you be leaving him? You "love" each other...but you don't have time for each other? Kinda seems like if you "loved" each other you would make time, or understand that there are certain responsibilities you both have to take care of that may cut down on the time you get to spend with each other.
And if you're too busy for him, how would you have time for anyone else?
2006-06-14 16:07:07 · answer #5 · answered by sharky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ms . if you love him stay with him it deos not matter if you have time or not because this relationship will not break you no matter how long if he really loves you he will wait for you day and night dusk till dawn for you even across the fartherst end of the earth and if he deosnt wait it is your time to move on be glad he calls you or even writes to you or leaves you a rose by your door step because even in world war 1 or 2 that is all they had a letter to write to there men or women and 3 months to wait
2006-06-14 16:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find someone that you love, adore and admire., someone who makes you feel special that person will always be in your life to make sure u are alright.
U will never loose this man take a day at a time
2006-06-14 16:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by M J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should leave it, it is hard to leave a relationship you have been in for a while, but you should find someone who treats you "like a queen" all the time, not just when the relationship is in debt.
2006-06-14 16:08:22 · answer #8 · answered by Alexis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you never with him cause you both don't have time for each other then how can you honestly say that you love him or that he loves you. Think about it your with the material things that he buys you more then you are with him, so do you really love him you the gifts.
If he is so good why are you complaining of being with him. !?
2006-06-14 16:15:37 · answer #9 · answered by a_bug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep going back because your love is blind. Also if you know this realionship will break you time and time again you need too leave him alone. Iam sorry the truth hurts. :-)
2006-06-14 16:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he loves u...what more do u want from that? He's trying his hardest, u shouldn't be selfish. It seems like you don't want to settle...first you need to decide what you want...
2006-06-14 16:08:42 · answer #11 · answered by chaand5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋