i told this kid that i like him so much but now i think that was a mistake. i changed my mind but when he calls i get scared and i dont pick up the phone. he says he loves me and i dont ant to break his heart. what should i say to him????
2006-06-14 09:00:10 · 11 answers · asked by liz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u have to tell him eventually!
2006-06-14 09:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by Zeratul 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What ever you do....do not give in. You have lost the feeling you should have for him and....in the long run....you will do him a favor to say goodbye.
When he calls just tell him you have had second thoughts about your relationship and cannot continue it. Make it very clear to him as he will hang on every word you say looking for a possible future relationship.
If you are not up front now you will hurt him far worse down the line. Trust me I know.
2006-06-14 16:06:26 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him.Honesty is the best policy.It's better to let him down easy than to keep rather than keep waiting and thinking something is going on between the two of you.
2006-06-14 16:05:35 · answer #3 · answered by NESHA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you won't be able to avoid him the rest of your life and I thinking avoiding him is probably making him feel worse than being told straight up that its not working. You have to just let him down easy he deserves that.
2006-06-14 16:08:08 · answer #4 · answered by Ashlee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very gentle. Most boys are very arrogant and they need to know that even though you like them you do not love them so be careful about what you say.
2006-06-14 16:03:54 · answer #5 · answered by lover_jessie05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth is the only way to go, so be a woman and tell them what you really mean.
2006-06-14 16:03:32 · answer #6 · answered by Nani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth
2006-06-14 16:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by sexikeri25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you really feel
2006-06-14 16:07:19 · answer #8 · answered by The One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel. if you do that then he will be alright with the circumstances.
2006-06-14 16:03:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to buck up and tell him... :)
2006-06-14 16:02:33 · answer #10 · answered by Mz_AmanDA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋