Yesterday, My boyfriend came over and we were in my room and we were laying on the floor, watching a movie, and kissing, what most teens do. Then my mom opened the door and we moved really fast, she didn't really see the whole thing, so she goes to my step dad and says that he was on top of me(which he wasn't) and she didn't know what we were doing. So my step dad called me over there after my bf went home and asked if we were having sex, which we weren't, I wouldn't even do that if they were there and I don't plan on doing that anytime soon. But there was a lot of yelling and cussing and he said if u want to be a lil whore then get out of my house and go live with your real dad. Me and my boyfriend are scared to know what will come out of his mouth next. So what do I say to him where he will believe that we weren't doing anything wrong? He's the type that always thinks he has to be right! so please help me!
2006-06-14 08:36:36 · 9 answers · asked by Love always Heather 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Umm one thing is, that would be a cold day in Hades that any man talks to my daughter that way!!! And your mother should have said something about that as well. I am a mom of a boy and a girl. If I see something I don't approve of.. I give the "mothers look", and after the person leaves, we have our safety and protection talk. I also remind my son (my daughter is only a yr and a half), who is a teenager, that he has more important things in his immediate future to take any relationship further than kissing. He knows he is not allowed to have his door shut nor is he allowed in the house alone with a girl.
2006-06-14 08:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by Kat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow if your mom doesnt step up you are pretty much just stuck u need to save the kissing til u are not around them but I too am a parent and well if I'd been the parent I too probably would ahve acted the same way so its best u and your boyfriend just contact each other through email because parents are gonna believe what they want so hang what goes on wont hurt for long just think that kissing could have led to more
2006-06-14 15:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by jcleann13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O boy..this is difficult. I would say be totally and completely honsest with him, be like...crying when you're telling him too. Haha! Tears always make them feel bad. Then try your best to be open..for example, have the door open when you're watching the movie...try not to be all over each other when your parents are around. You won't have to worry about your step dad flipping out if he can see everything you're doing. That's all I got, hope this helps. Good luck.
2006-06-14 15:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by Jacqui 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your boyfriend out of your room. Sometimes parents will "overreact" to situations that they don't feel comfortable discussing. It is much easier to cuss and try to scare you than to have a meaningful discussion about sexuality and dating. Words have yet to be invented that will convince him that you weren't doing something....only your actions, your mature decisions, and your love. Your mom is the enemy in this situation. Why did she turn your stepdad on you? Talk about this with your real dad if this "tattle and verbal abuse" continue.
2006-06-14 19:28:03 · answer #4 · answered by Chainsawmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to stop having your boyfriend in your room,,ok,,and as for you stepdad calling you a whore id tell my real dad that little bit of info,.how old are you for one thing,you mom letting a boy in your room,she should know better,you shouldnt kiss your boyfriend at home where someone can walk in on you.
2006-06-14 15:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by Ms Scarlet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the boy's out of your room then you have nothing to worry about, especially other peers talking about that ssomething that did not happen.
2006-06-14 15:45:49 · answer #6 · answered by jenshensnest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your step father was wrong and he needs to apolgize to you and you need to talk to him and let him know that the situation wasn't what he think it is.
2006-06-14 15:49:39 · answer #7 · answered by adamsland1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell t hem to smoke a blunt
2006-06-14 15:40:03 · answer #8 · answered by mystic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god!! tell me about it!!!there so nosy and to over ruling...they cant trust us for anything!!!>:(
2006-06-14 16:38:25 · answer #9 · answered by Grack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋