I work in an office in a small business area with a bunch of small businesses and there is a really cute girl i've noticed the last couple days in the parking lot. I think she works in the office right next door. I've never spoken to her and I don't know anything about her, she just caught my eye the other day and was wondering how and if i should even try and ask her out.
2006-06-14 08:35:48 · 26 answers · asked by hepliin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go over to her and say hi and just ask if she works around there. take it from there maybe ask her out to lunch.
2006-06-14 08:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should walk right up to her and say, "I work in the office next to yours and I think you are very attractive and I wanted to meet you." The less concern you show for what anyone thinks about that, the more effective you will be and the more attracted she will be to you. For example, if you walk into her office, ignore everyone and walk right up to her and say this, you will generate intense attraction in her. The trick is to completely ignore everyone else and to ignore any various unwritten rules as to when and where it is appropriate for a man to approach a woman. Only do this if there are no formal consequences for doing this. The fact that it is the office next to yours is a mitigating factor for this. Never do this with a woman that works in your own office. The reason is simple. Although she will love you for it, those around you will feel intense jealousy with your success. In the office next door, they are impotent and can be safely ignored. That is not the case in your own office. They will NEVER do anything in front of your face but will attempt to stab you in the back, preferably anonymously.
2006-06-14 08:44:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to think of some clever way to talk to her. The Key to this is just to start a conversation with her and open doors. To pine over the girl across the parking lot is pointless and nothing with come of it. But to Open doors and the opportunity to engage in a conversation that mite lead to further conversations, and engagements, and romance is a change much worth taking. Take the Leap. The Worse that could happen is that you'll continue being the way you are, and she won't be apart of your life.
2006-06-14 08:42:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to get to know her first. Don't just walk up to her and ask her to go out sometime. Introduce yourself and tell her where you work and what you do. Ask her what she does. Try to time it so you just happen to be walking with her and start a casual conversation. You don't want to seem like a stalker or anything so just be friendly and strike up a few convo's with her. Get a feel for her before you ask her out for a drink after work. She may put you off b/c she is with someone else or not interested. It will make it easier on all if you make friends first. Maybe you don't want to or cant date her, but becoming friends with her opens up the possibility of dating one of her friends.
2006-06-14 08:41:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very simple answer. Just go up to her, and ask her! Don't do it like a stalker would. waive at her so she see's you approach her try to smile, and say something like: Hey I saw you out here a couple of times and I thought you were attractive. I have never done this before but would I was wondering if you would like to do lunch or grab a beer. If you get rejected, SO WHAT? the fear of rejection we put on ourselves but the more you get comfertible with approaching women the easier it gets and the more sucessfull you will become at dating.
2006-06-14 08:42:55 · answer #5 · answered by dlow1972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Park near her if possible and manage to make conversation with her. Don't ask her out right away, just chatting a little bit can determine if you really want to ask her out or not. Do that a few times and then if you still want to ask her out, just do it. Make sure there isn't a ring on her finger first! Oh and don't try and talk to her everyday-that will make her feel uncomfortable.
2006-06-14 08:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by kmccabe52204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never an easy task - maybe when you take breaks go outside and see if she's out there - strike up a conversation with her - and take the chance to get to know her - if you become friends maybe it would be easier to ask her out at that point
a couple others had the idea of putting the note on her car - that was a good idea - cute
2006-06-14 08:38:39 · answer #7 · answered by kaije03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask any of her co-workers what she is like and is interested in. Then next time you see her in the parking lot, ask her questions about what she likes to do and share your thoughts with her in a mature, intelligent manner.
It doesn't take rocket science to open up a conversation with women. It takes a bit of understanding and a genuine attitude.
2006-06-14 08:37:58 · answer #8 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u available? if so, simple go up to her compliment her on how she looks and introduce urself then ask her if she would like to go (state somewhere specific like the coffee, lunch, dinner, movies, concert something interesting) and get her respond, but don't feel anyway if she turns u down. because she may be in a serious relationship. just be open minded, because there can only be two answer: yes or no.
2006-06-14 08:43:54 · answer #9 · answered by Resurrected 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I'd ask around to see if anyone who works in those offices knows anything about her. She might already have a boyfriend, she might be a lesbian, and she might be a crack head. Find something out about her before you ask her out.
2006-06-14 08:38:39 · answer #10 · answered by flamingo_sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying never hurts, wait it might hurt your ego, but if you'll never know till you try. But I might think its strange if some guy walked over to me and asked me out, but then again some people like that. Anyway you might really hit it off and fall in love, or she might be a psyco but you'll never know unless you start talking!!!
2006-06-14 08:39:15 · answer #11 · answered by alyssa_the_great21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋