my mother found out I was having sex not too long ago, and now I just can't seem to get in "the mood" anymore. Is the fact that she knows affecting me or is something with me and/or my boyfriend. (whom I've been seeing for over a year.)
2006-06-14 08:33:30 · 7 answers · asked by James 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
most likely the boyfriend if it was your first you might not have cared for it as much because you didn't love him enough to have sex
2006-06-14 08:37:38 · answer #1 · answered by cwb63ss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think the idea of your mother knowing may bother you, but that will not cause you to not be able to be stimmulated or sufficently aroused to have sex, next time your alone with your man take it slowly and let the juices flow, things should happen naturally like it use to before!!!
2006-06-14 15:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mind is the biggest organ involved in sex, therefore if you have an issue that would bother you mentally it is a major mood killer...death,divorce,guilt,depression...they are all labido killers
2006-06-14 15:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by tuff742003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are feeling guilty about your mother knowing and its affecting ur mood
2006-06-14 15:48:02 · answer #4 · answered by J999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are embarrised that she found out and now you are worried about what she thinks of you so this is going to affect you
2006-06-14 15:42:27 · answer #5 · answered by MM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mentally get yourself ready.
This is about attitude, not mood.
Relax. Things will come naturally
good luck!
2006-06-14 15:38:52 · answer #6 · answered by javarick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it's the fact your mother knows that ur'e sexual active.
2006-06-14 15:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by ladyparadise_69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋