i have a xian background evryone around me goes to church even me myself i am in love with christ and i respect my womanhood so much i dont want to go against my beliefs
2006-06-14 08:29:28 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't do it
2006-06-14 08:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by idontkno 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you this, if he's using that line and saying that sex will save your relationship you're in for a reality check. Don't get me wrong, an active sex life with partners is very important for a lasting relationship, but if that's the only thing he's saying will save it, I wouldn't fall for it. Follow your instincts and hold on to your faith. The right man for you will believe as you do. I myself wouldn't get into a serious realtionship if the intimacy was not part of it, but that's just how I feel about being in a relationship. Don't do anything you might regret later.
2006-06-14 08:38:22 · answer #2 · answered by jimmyweda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't if u don't want to. If u do make sure its because YOU love him. Not so you can save your relationship. In a relationship you have a right to what you do and don't want to happen to you. Its your body and your right to say no. You won't be hurting anybody's feelings. You're abiding and respecting your womanhood rights.
2006-06-14 08:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by kenyainmississippi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend truly cared about you, he would respect your decision to not have sex. Sex can never save a relationship, and you should never do anything that goes against your morals, values or beliefs.
2006-06-14 08:34:00 · answer #4 · answered by Flagstones925 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to and If he using your sexual beliefs against you in order to "save" the relationship this guy obviously doesn't care about you. He should love you and respect your decisions if not then you should let him go and move on. You seem to respect yourself and your beliefs, you deserve better.
2006-06-14 08:36:29 · answer #5 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having sex is not going to save your relationship - that's the first thing you should know - if that is what your boyfriend says will save it - then he's lying to you - sounds like you have a lot of respect for yourself. don't go against your beliefs - it's NOT WORTH IT
2006-06-14 08:36:50 · answer #6 · answered by kaije03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex with your boyfriend. The save your relationship line is total bull. He's just trying to get in your pants. Be true to yourself if it doesn't feel right don't do it. Sex can not save a relationship.
2006-06-14 08:34:06 · answer #7 · answered by butterflykisses427 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, if he’s pressuring you into a sexual relationship to save it now, what else is he going to pressure you into later? Think about it.
Saving yourself, whether it’s for a religious purpose or not is your choice. If homeboy is not able to wait until you are ready, most likely he’s not the young man that has been chosen for you. Wait until you are ready.
Be blessed as you study and pass this life's test.
2006-06-14 08:45:11 · answer #8 · answered by Decent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex never saves a relationship, thats an excuse. Wait till your ready, if he's unwilling to wait with you, then that will tell you what kind of guy he is. Continue to respect yourself and your decision. Good Luck.
2006-06-14 08:34:25 · answer #9 · answered by Oilfield 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt then if you dont want too because it he really wants to save your relationship then it should be about improvements on your weak spots not about sex. If you really go with your beliefs then dont. Plus if he really loves you then hell wait on you!
2006-06-14 08:38:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who pressures you to do something against the core fabric of who you are is not worthing knowing! Dump the boy! Find someone who has your same values and beliefs!
2006-06-14 08:33:57 · answer #11 · answered by kalmered0415 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋