to shave or not to shave ??

Question

answe my question...my older sister no longer shaves off any of her hair.. bc her bf told her she didnt have to.. i think its sick and smelly..but her bf smells too..so i guess its weird..and sick..but should i make her shave...am i write to think its icky and wrong

Answer 1

Yes, that is completely disgusting! Unfortunately I do not see how you can make her shave. Hopefully she will soon figure out how gross that is. He sounds like a real winner. Good luck, I hope she comes to her senses soon.

Answer 2

It's absolutely none of your business whether your sister shaves her armpits, legs, mustache, or whatever. It's not weird, sick, icky, a sign of bad hygiene, or probably very smelly (which is, of course, dependent upon her bathing habits). Most men don't shave anything but their face, and that's not considered weird or strange at all. Your double standard is a stereotypical idiot male viewpoint. So, not only are you forcing this double standard on women, but you're making all men seem even dumber than we already are. Thanks a lot, moron, and to all the other morons reinforcing this stupidity. I checked this site out because I was curious; I'll never come back because it just shows how absolutely pathetic the entire world is, and it makes me want to kill myself, or all of you (I can't make up my mind). I suppose you all have myspace accounts too. Good luck; I hope you didn't accidentally give yourself a hemorrhage attempting to read this too fast.

Answer 3

Your sister can do what she wants. Shaving is a personal choice--although the media and advertisers like to tell women how women are "supposed" to be, which is hair free. There are several other women out there, and not necessarily feminists--as most people would assume, that don't shave. Some women shave because they want to and because they feel "cleaner". But others don't shave because they are lazy or don't see the reason in doing so. It's all about personal choice.

Answer 4

If her bf likes...they r both happy I say leave it alone. Sometimes when we cause friction in another relationship we r viewed as the 'bad guy' after they make up. When it comes to in-laws (legal or association) the best thing to do is play the cards u r dealt unless there is a rational reason beyond the shadow of doubt not to. Even then u run risk. Most of us know of an intimate relationship that we clearly do not agree with.

Besides, sometime people make a choice between their families unconditional and indefinitely love and a current love.

Answer 5

well if your talking about shaving under your arms yes because girls should not walk around with hairy under pits and smelly becauuse that shows bad hygeine and the right thing to do is tell your sister that

Answer 6

Thats up to her...not you. However if the odor becomes unbearable, maybe you can mention it to her, and maybe she'll get it without you flat out telling her you think she should shave.
I work with many "natural" woman....and they don't shave anything, and they don't mind when we tell them (especially in the summertime!!!)Just think...back in the old days, they didn't have gilette or bic, so everyone went as is.

Answer 7

Its a personal preference. In Europe the women don't shave at all, legs or underarms, and its accepted. If she and her bf don't mind, why should you?

Answer 8

you are entitled to your own thought. However it is her body and smelly as it may be. You can't make her do it. she has to want to do it. Point out how bad she smells and the turn off this is to people.

Answer 9

as long as i can't see the hair from 5 feet away then im ok with that....i saw a girl as hairy as me and i was about to throw up..please trim if your not going to shave...please. do me a favor

Answer 10

SHAVE - SHAVE - SHAVE - SHAVE - SHAVE - SHAVE - SHAVE

Shaved is sooooo much nicer... looks better.. MUCH SEXIER.. cleaner... feels better to the touch... yep.. shaved everything is WONDERFUL (except the head of course!)
You're right... shaved is the way to go!