Me and my guy have been together 6 months. We get along pretty good. We have this thing that we could look at other people but not go up to them. Basically look but dont touch kind of thing. Just the other day he got mad because he said i was staring at some other guys at the mall. So when i got in the car he slapped me. Ofcourse i told him that wasnt ok. he just kept telling me why did i have to stare at other guys. We left to his house but on our way over there he was telling me all kinds of things. I just stood quiet. I didnt want to make things worse. I felt really ackward. I felt sad. I was scared. I just didnt show it. So finally when we got to his house i was getting off the car and he pulls me by the hair. Hes like come here give me a kiss. Then he said he was sorry for acting the way he did. It freaked me out big time. Because I know he didnt mean it like that. but i just dont know what to do. I want to be with him its just not like this. give me some advice. thanks
2006-06-14 08:11:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's never okay!!! It may start with a slap, but will lead to more violence. He needs professional help.
2006-06-14 08:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by bigfish_sharks_bite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him, what he has done is completely wrong and disgusting and it will only get worse.. for hiself in your enabling him ,and your sense of worth and security will be damaged itself.
but at the same time let this be a lesson to you to stop staring at guys with someone you're with around that's kinda cruel to his self worth.. he woulda been better to talk this through with you understandably rather using physical means to communicate his hurt and frustration. hell , he might be just being paranoid but be honest with yourself if you're actually doing it or not, many girls do t his to me when they're with their significant other and i find it terribly rude, i hate it! if you're with him that means you representing you like him and he should be the one in your attention, not some hot guys walking by. Nothing wrong with glances here and there he will do the same to girls it's only natural but just don't stare it's creepy and rude as hell .. just think of that for future relationships but drop the loser.. a real man uses his words to work things out with you
2014-05-04 05:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him!! He lost his temper cause he's jealous but that not ok.
2014-04-25 08:04:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT NOW WHILE YOU STILL CAN!!!
What he's done to you, twice in the same day is physical abuse. Nobody deserves to get treated that way. Sorry isn't enough. He should've thought about that before he laid his hands on you. If you let something small like this slide by 'this time,' there might not be a next time...
Don't put up with it. 6 months and he's already got brave enough to hit a woman??? He doesn't have any balls. He wouldn't defend you if another man laid his hands on you, so he doesn't need to give you that kind of treatment. If he cared about you, he wouldn't have even thought of touching you in a harmful way. Get out.
2006-06-14 08:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him quick. This abusive behavior will only escalate and get worse with time. Men like this aren't sorry... they just say it so they won't loose you but it's not sincere.
It will get worse and worse. He is not going to change regardless of what he tells you!!! Get out while you still can, there are better men out there than this loser!
Tell someone you trust... a teacher, school counselor, family member. Let people know, and leave this jerk.
2006-06-14 08:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 21:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did it once he will do again and who is he to tell you who to look at, GOD bless you with two eyes. The relationship is going to be a brutal one. Take my advice and get away while you can. I don't want to see another statistics about domestic violence. You sound like you never had a boyfriend before. They come a dime a dozen. Unless, you like being abused? Once he knows he can get away with slapping you or pulling your hair next his will be hitting you with his fist.
2006-06-14 08:19:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People like him do not change. If you stay with him, he will hit you and then later on say he is sorry. The cycle will repeat itself. Save yourself from a life of misery and maybe dead. No one has the right to hit another person.
2006-06-14 08:22:50 · answer #8 · answered by soar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with everyone else,
Dump him fast, the longer you are with him the more beatings you will get. He has a self-esteem problem. No man should put his hands on a woman for any reason. Plus tell your parents what happened. There are too many other guys out there to get caught up with a loser like that. RUNAWAY FAST AS YOU CAN!!!!!!!!! PLEASE!!!!!!
2006-06-14 10:53:49 · answer #9 · answered by trace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is the stsrting point to sn upcoming abusive and controlling relationship,.. u need to get out before it is too late,..... u dont need to be treated that way,. next time it wont be a slap,. it will be a punch or a slammin against a wall.......
u need to leave,.
2006-06-14 08:16:29 · answer #10 · answered by cris 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋