How do i become a JERK??

Question

I want to be fun exciting and not care about what people think of me, i want to walk and speak with confidence what should i do??

Answer 1

Why be jerk? You can be a really good person and be confident and not care what other people think of you. It's just that you have to choose the right people not to care about. You have to not care about what JERKS think of you. The good people will have good advice. If you really want to be a jerk, don't listen to any of the answers to your question, including this one. Can't say that'll do much for your popularity though.

Answer 2

For me it meant getting married and moving from Maryland to Alaska and not being around the people who I was so worried about impressing.

But when its all said and done I think the most important part is realizing that you matter. Its easier said than done. Learn to say no. If you arent interested in someone, let them know right off. If you arent having fun, leave. If you dont want to go to some event, say no. You will be much more fun if you are spending time with people and hobbies that you enjoy. People who already know you might be shocked if you begin standing up for yourself, but they'll get used to it.

Try new things. And just because you've done something along time ago and didnt like it doesnt mean you dont now. Up here trying something means go canoeing, climbing, hunting, hiking, camping, or bowling, softball, hockey, etc. Wherever you are try new things, learn new things and invite your friends along. A freind that is always willing to try new things is almost always exciting and fun.

I guess I didnt answer the Jerk part of the question, but just getting over your fears and living life is the start of being a confident fun person to be around. You dont worry so much about what people think when you know you have a lot to offer the world.

Answer 3

Um your def is not being a jerk, it's just being urself. Hopefully u feel u don't want to be a jerk, because (excuse my language) but
another name for a jerk is an a** hole. I think what you're trying to find is to be a free spirit. Just get in touch with yourself, don't care what people think about you (cuz honestly no one has the rite to judge since we all grew up in very diff ways) don't compare yourself to others, seek your passions, and don't hold back. Just make sure you're as nice to others as you can be, but break away from societies negative chains that make us hold back. I too still have a long way to go! But that's half the fun!!!

Answer 4

You are what you are and short of chemical aids you will be stay that way. Try and build confidence in yourself. When you have this you will find your soul mate. They may not be very gregarious or ooze confidence but be perfect for you. When I was young and foolish I played at being a jerk. All I found was chavs looking for a good time, when I needed more sophistication.
Be yourself but try and smile more.

Answer 5

I'm afraid you're a little misguided about what you really want right now. Talk to a few people, think about it, read the answers here, and examine your heart and true goals. But in the meantime, choose a different word than "jerk", as I don't think that's what you mean. I suspect that simply more self-confident is what you mean, but that's for you to figure out.
Best of luck to you!

Answer 6

Dont become a jerk! being outgoing and fun and being a jerk are two different things.

Just a head up, from a girls perspective, 9 out of 10 girls HATE jerks. We really like the fun, sensitive, outgoing guys with a little confidence thrown in. Just try making more friends and approach people first and be NICE. Girls actually like nice so be nice!

seriously, dont be a jerk. Jerks dont get far in life.

good luck sweetie

Answer 7

Go to the beach, put your bare feet in the sand, take a deep breath and completely let go. If it comes out in a scream or tears or stomping or just silence, let it happen. Make a promise to yourself that it just won't matter what they think. Then take yourself out to dinner ALONE, with magazine, sit at the table ALONE and enjoy the best dinner of your life in your new found confidence. Best of luck....let me know what happens

Answer 8

Your not wanting to become a jerk, You should just be comfortable with who you are and take "risks" and do stuff you wouldn't do that's how you grow and yea

contact me if you need some help

Answer 9

First of all, don't take drugs to be that way. That would be kinda bad. I suggest pretending you know much more than everyone else. That'll give you confidence, and if you believe you're smarter than everyone, then you won't care what people think of you.

Answer 10

Start saying "no" to other peoples wants and start yes to your own.be spontaneous and start with a list , write all the things you want to do, with each completion you should get more and more confident.