In NY & NJ how old do you have to be to get into a club or bar (knowing I cant drink of course, im 18!?)?

Answer 1

I'm from NY and most of the bars in my area won't let you in till your 21, however there are some that will allow you in at 18, but will not serve you any alcohol.
So you should ask the bar tender right up front if you are allowed in the bar.
You should always have your id on you when you go to the bars.

Answer 2

Im from Jersey- 18 to enter, 21 to drink @ MOST clubs. Some nights the rules change to draw a certain crowd.
21 to enter busy bars......

21 to get served @ non busy bars, but u could certainly get inside these.