Does everything go as plan? If not would you be mad? Also do the ladies choose everything for the wed. and just let the man sit back or requires joint planning. Do most woman want to have sex thier first night of their wedding? Too many questions huh!
2006-06-14 08:02:21 · 9 answers · asked by Lae 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Ok - one at a time. Yes every woman wants a perfect wedding. No, not everything goes as planned. Some get mad. A few things went wrong (technically) at my wedding but I wasn't bridezilla and didn't let it bother me. I did not dictate what had to happen and throw a tempertantrum if it didn't happen that way. But yes, some get extremely mad because a flower in the display that no one will actually look at is kind of funny shaped.
Often times much of the planning and decision making is left to the bride. My husband gave his input on some things like the tux and the rings and the food but other then that was perfectly happy letting me make the decisions. At first I asked him what he thought of everything. Then I figured out he didn't mind either way. I still consulted him on big things but mostly it was just showing him what was up. I have heard of couples who both share in the planning equally. Either way is fine. That is up to the couple and their dynamics.
I know that a month before the wedding we had been abstinent and honestly I was horny as hell my wedding night. Some women, particularly virgins or girls without much experience are scared and may not be ready on their wedding night. But for the most part, even for virgins, the sexual tension has built up so much they are more then ready. (I've heard tales of women practically raping their new husbands - women think about sex just as much as guys do you know.)
Ok - there you go. Hope that helps.
2006-06-14 08:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by bubb1e_gir1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We do want things perfect but for me I expect something to go wrong because most of the time they do, but the important thing is that both of you are there to get married. Sometimes the funniest things and the things you remember the most are the things that go wrong (example: my parents elecricity went out now it is funny and they had a beautiful candle light service)
Most of the time only the women plan the wedding but it depends on the couple, my fiance has helped me plan things every step of the way, and some men have just a few tasks that they do. My fiance and I are both still virgins and we are really looking forward to our wedding which is this Saturday! I think sex is a big part of your wedding night, but it is also romantic to have other things, like food (strawberries with chocolate) and different things like that. Getting married is the best thing, and don't let people put you down, some of the people do here at work and I just ignore what they say, because I know marriage will be a lot of hard work but it will be worth it!!! If you have any more questions feel free to email me (just click on my picture) and I will be glad to answer more questions!
2006-06-14 08:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by glitter3317 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women want everything to go perfect, but it rarely does. Life happens and situations change - there is no such thing as perfect. If my wedding does not go perfectly,I would not be mad, It actually makes things endearing. I have done most of the planning for my wedding with my mom and sister's help, but my fiance has helped out a lot. I don't know who doesn't want to have sex the first night of marriage, that is a little strange if they don't. Not to many questions.
Hope that sums it up.
2006-06-14 09:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by irishcreaminator83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are too many variables in a party, especially a large party, for everything to go according to plan. Expecting things to be "perfect" for "my day" can change a sweet and considerate lady into a horrid monster; don't let talk of "perfection" go unchallenged.
It would be charming to suggest to your bride that you will both be exhausted on your wedding night and it might be best to just cuddle and sleep and then consummate in the morning. If it's the first time, trust me, it will be better when you are well rested and have the whole day ahead of you. If it's NOT your first time, then what's the rush?
2006-06-14 08:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that everything for the wedding should be a compromise. I think that the couple not just him or her, but them as a couple decide on all the details for their wedding. I think that you shouldn't get mad if everything doesn't go as planned, what does in life. I think if you've not had sex or hardly do yeah I think it's expected but if not and you do have sex all the time then it's not like it's anything special.
2006-06-14 08:19:33 · answer #5 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think a woman should do everything in the wedding i let my husband pick out the tux and he chose the colors of our wedding he even picked out my dress,and nothing ever goes as planned ,i was upset but i got over it,and as for having sex the night after your wedding most every one does but make it romantic rose petals over the bed candles all over the room
2006-06-15 12:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing ever goes as planned..when I got married I have several things go wrong..but they are what ended up making the best memories for me...if a man wants to be involved he should say so..it's his wedding to..sex on the wedding night is ok, but most of the time you are SO tired from the stress of the day that it wouldn't be that good anyway...so I always say it's not that important..you are married now..there is always time for that.
2006-06-14 12:11:37 · answer #7 · answered by Syeira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But what bout it crazy if woman want thier wedding to be prefect and that their problem not yuor only if you love her and care for her.
2006-06-14 08:45:32 · answer #8 · answered by Emily P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not usually,i don't think it makes any difference ,it's better if the man takes some part in the planning,yes of course,and yes.lol
2006-06-14 08:08:06 · answer #9 · answered by best of the brits 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋