What do guys think of drunk-dialing/texting?

Question

I sent this guy I really like a drunk-text the other night. I feel like I lost all my dignity along with it. I've left him drunk-voicemails before and he always told me they were cute, and would ask at other times if he would be getting a drunk call when Id go out. Hes out of town with his work for a few months so all we have is the phone. Things have been slowing down with us (amount of time we talk) and I just said the stupidest thing to him in the text. I didnt profess my love or anything but Im still embarrassed. I havent heard from him since, what do you think that means? And how do I stop from drunk-texting/calling him??

Answer 1

Here's a thought, don't drink. If you do make a friend take your phone before you start drinking and tell her/him under no circumstances can you have your phone back until the next day.

Answer 2

I worked at a bar for 3 years as a bouncer and if there is one thing i know it is drunks. Drunk dialing and texting is not a bad thing really. it is just a way for people to say what they really mean and well they just dont have the ability to decide what is going to far or not. When people are drunk the brain slows down and the heart speeds up. All you did was follow your heart and you cant be faulted for that.

Answer 3

It's childish and immature but I'm pretty sure everyone's done it. He might not have a response for what you text.
Delete his # off your phone or try not to get drunk. Ask your friends to help and keep you from doing it.

Answer 4

My brother called a girl in the middle of the night just to ask if she was psycho. They had just met a week before. Unbelievably they are still toghether three years later. She is the first gf he has had that wasn't psycho!

Answer 5

Um... He probley doesn't wanna talk to you anymore. And the way to stop doing it is just stop, if you can't control your self when you drink then maybe drunk dialing is not the real problem.