2006-06-14 07:50:47 · 30 answers · asked by mnj0012 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be yourself.
2006-06-14 07:52:39 · answer #1 · answered by okronbon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't try to impress someone on a first date or show them you're really into them. If the chemistry is there, it'll work out. Just be yourself, be relaxed, and keep the pressure off. If you come up with some fancy gesture you might come off a little intense or the other person might feel a little pressured. The best thing to do is be kind, courteous, and just try to have a good time. If you decide you have to do something extra, a single flower is nice, but pick a neutral color like white or yellow and probably a rose isn't the best way to go. Just be patient, it'll happen if it's there. Good luck.
2006-06-14 14:54:30 · answer #2 · answered by b_switek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending where you live, take someone to see the sights, or to a place where it's a reputaion for fun. Don't overspend, but a gift will help show your affections. Don't tred into personal space! That is a big one for me. Talk about things, see what you have in common, and DO them.
A movie is good, something you are both intersted in seeing. Be curtious like holding open the door, pulling out the chair, and if she smokes, light her cigarette. Don't over compliment her, even if she looks great, and DON'T STARE. While she's talking, listen and look at her eyes.If you guys dance, pick out a song she likes. If you guys go for an outting, or decide to play a sport, find something easy to learn or fun to do, like bowling or mini golf. Something romantic would be a drive into the country for a picnic. But don't use all that space to get fresh! Show you are a gentleman.
Anything else, dearie?
Call if you need more advice.
2006-06-14 15:07:05 · answer #3 · answered by AutumnGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you go out, talk to your date about their interests and plan the first date around that. Don't go to far, just do something subtle. For example if they like horseback riding don't take her to the stables (thats going to far). Instead read about horses and discuss what you read about to her (thats subtle). It shows that you value her interests. A real woman will appreciate that.
NOTE: Please do not take her to dinner and movie. Statistics show dating and marrige is at a decline so when couples are just starting out the date should involve a place where more talking and observing the behaviors of each other is possible....good luck on your first date and remember to use eye contact always.
Peace
2006-06-14 15:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by Kenya_7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to impress a woman, cook for her. Find something simple, like soup made from chicken and veggies. Cook it in a slow cooker, and let that baby cook all day. When you bring her home, give her some of your soup. To seal the deal, buy some bread from the bakery. She'll love you forever.
2006-06-14 14:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by Collin R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problems dude
don't listen to that b*tch okronbon, be yourself never work..
listen to them? yea that's a fuccin good first impression. Just sit there like a moron
maybe I should try grabbin the breasts next time, at least i will have somethin to remember her by
2006-06-14 14:55:29 · answer #6 · answered by Laugh-n-fart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to relax, be confident but not cocky, don't come on too strong. If the two of you are already mildly familiar tell her things about you which she coundn't know. If you don't know each other at all a movie is best and if it feels right maybe coffee or ice cream after wards.
2006-06-14 14:57:47 · answer #7 · answered by chrome_rider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and get a little bit of clue of her likes/dislikes before you take her out on a date. Her favorite cuisine, what movie she's been dying to see, places she's never been, what kind of wine she drinks, her fave dessert, etc etc... then act on it! She'll appreciate that for sure.
Also, dress nice, smell nice, shave, clean your nails, get rid of un-wanted hair in nose/ear areas (eeewww), comb your hair, clean & vacuum your car, open the door for her, don't taste food out of her plate without asking for permission, pay for dinner (refuse to split the bill even when she offers!), don't burp, BE GENTLE AND RESPECTFUL, no dirty jokes, don't boast, don't talk about past relationships in detail (no names please), hold her hand when you walk with her (but not before dinner/movie starts)! Good luck.
2006-06-14 15:06:30 · answer #8 · answered by Bobbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 Be attentive to what they say.
#2 Share what you have to say, but don't dominate the conversation (see #1)
#3 Don't overdo the praises. (people may question your motives)
#4 Be on time. (shows that you value their time)
#5 Be yourself - try to avoid thinking that you have to impress them... :)
2006-06-14 14:55:27 · answer #9 · answered by fooah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take them for a walk on the beach, hold hands and watch the sunset, go get icecream, talk and listen to her...It got me :)
2006-06-14 14:54:45 · answer #10 · answered by butterfly_2006_1983 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By paying attention to them nobody doesnt wanna be neglected but not to much to the point where yhey think you're wierd.
2006-06-14 14:56:53 · answer #11 · answered by lala jamal davis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋