MY BFRIEND HAS A MYSPACE ACCOUNT AND I FOUND OUT THAT HE HAS ADDED EX GIRL AS A FRIEND AND CALLED HER LAST NIGHT I AM PREGNANT AND WE LIVE TOGETHER HAVE 1 CHILD AS WELL WHAT SHOULD I DO? THIS IS MY FIRST BOYFRIEND AND I NEVER CHEATED HOW SHOULD I APPROACH HIM . AMONG THAT HE MADE SEVERAL
2006-06-14 07:41:36 · 12 answers · asked by misty20062006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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My bfriend mom told me about his myspace website found out his ex girl is on his my friend list and also found out they been talking and talked over the phone last night. I used keylogger to find out all of this so how should I approach him without telling all what i did to catch him. The reason why I did it because he was acting too suspicious and getting on the internet a lot checking his my space info.
2006-06-14 07:43:50 · update #1
Ya'll aint never lied I am going to keep it real 8 years down the drain naw but I am going to ask what is up and ask him to stop talking to her and the my space is fine if you are not actually trying to meet people over the internet. It hurts but I will do my best to keep us together he is the determining factor and it's wrong to do me like this now after all these years and now i am pregnant. This will make me stronger the next time around if I have to start over.
2006-06-14 07:49:55 · update #2
on the myspace account he said that he would swing by her house if he comes through that's not right I am going to think about the kids yeah but I have to think about me too do I really want to be depressed if I feel our talk doesn't work then bye bye hate to say it but yep can't deal with it.
2006-06-14 07:53:05 · update #3
You're in trouble, and that's clear. This man is doing wrong, and he needs to be held accountable for it, especially because of the children issue.
I hope you let him know this is NOT okay with you and he better get his heart right.
If by chance this somehow leads to a break up I'm sorry for your pain, but he sounds like an irresponsible jerk anyway, just my honest opinion.
2006-06-14 07:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by JC 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's not cheating. Don't approach him and accuse him until you find out facts. Did you think that maybe he's excited about the baby and wants the world to know? Just because it's an ex - don't just assume. You need facts before you ever accuse someone.
2006-06-14 14:44:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl yall gotta baby togehter. Im not saying ignore the fact but approach him in a calm manner and keep it real to him and for yourself, and the baby on the way. Good Luck!
2006-06-14 14:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by sexydutches327 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get all your stuff straight and all the facts. then bust his a$$ with it. he doesn't deserve you if he wants to make himself happy by talking to his ex. i'm going through that right now, expect it's not an ex its a new girl. so i feel that he's doesn't deserve me for what hes doing and if he ever wanted me back he would have to work for it. shame on him for doing that while having kids with you. pray to god for strength to move on and have faith in him that one day you will be happy again. if he's not doing anything then have him stop what he's doing and if he cant and he tries to say he's just chatting then he doesn't respect you enough to make you feel comfortable. thats when you tell him, "alright if that's what you want to do then i'm not gonna waste my time and our childrens time with you." anyway good luck and have faith in god.
2006-06-14 14:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Miss X♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him whats going on and if he lies to you you know what do next try not to get up set cause you could hurt your unborn child then . go from there all so use your woman intrusion you can never go wrong with it IF YOU ARE RIGHT MOVE ON GIRL he could give you all kinds of STD OR EVEN AIDS
2006-06-14 14:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by trouble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to have more proof before going down that path. i personally don't believe in cheating so when my g/f thinks i am i get extremely pissed because i always tell that i will never do it. so if you want to go down that path make sure you can back it up with a good reason.
2006-06-14 14:46:50 · answer #6 · answered by Help me Pick my Brain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically he didn't cheat on you. yea he was wrong for talking to her, or was he, do you know what he was talking about? Maybe her mother died and he and her are just close like that, dint let jealousy take over ya mind. just let it be until you physically catch him in the wrong.
2006-06-14 14:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by PANTHA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You really suck at picking the father for your kids.
2006-06-14 14:45:29 · answer #8 · answered by fromdheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd approach him with a bat.
2006-06-14 14:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by ·!¦[·ÐarrÁ·]¦!· 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad children are involved, this guy is a loser
2006-06-14 14:44:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋