in whole day she meets me hardly & after all she dosent have time 2 talk with me kindly. she talks kindly wiyh everybody including our servant. what shall i do???
2006-06-14 07:29:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i said her so many times but still she ignores me pls help
2006-06-14 07:58:36 · update #1
don't think in the negative side. start conversation with your self first with mam. i don't think she dislike you. other wise try to do friend ship with some good friends and have a good company to share your feelings. if ur interested i will be your friend. plz share your feelins with me. friend any way, don't be a pessimistic be optimistic.
if ur interested i will give my mail id.
o.k.............., have a nice sleep. hari..
2006-06-14 07:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by hari kishore m 1 · 11⤊ 3⤋
Well first of all what does she do for a living? My mom is the same way, she's a teacher and she spends more time helping her student then her own two kids. If your mom is someone who has a busy job, ( where people need to make an appointment with her) then do it, make one, see how bad she feels after her own child had to make an appointment just to talk to her. She'll get the hint then maybe will fit some time in her schedual for you.
2006-06-14 15:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by Niki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think leaving her a note is a good idea. In it maybe you could say you feel like she has been ignoring you, and you need her to spend time with you. Say you understand she is busy, so she wont be so defensive. Ask her if she can plan a day when just the two of you can spend the whole day together. Try and give her the note/letter or let her find it when you think she'll be receptive to it. Good Luck.
2006-06-14 14:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by lizgolde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Maybe it's time to grow up and spend time with your friends. I'm sure if you talk to your mom she'll soend time with you but she can't always be with you 24-7. Take up a hobby.
2006-06-14 14:32:34 · answer #4 · answered by Mikkos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sometimes happens when people are too busy to notice what's right under there noses. Talk to your mom and tell her you need to spend some time with her. It's true sometimes we are kinder to complete strangers then we are to our own family.
2006-06-14 14:36:27 · answer #5 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun maybe you should try to initate a conversation with her or get her attention and say hey mom you got a minute i really need to talk to you
sounds like your mom is a very busy woman and it isnt taht she doesnt love you she just has so much to do but if you just say hey mom please i need a minute to talk to you
2006-06-14 14:34:39 · answer #6 · answered by silvereagle1125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you mom has too many responsibilities. our moms can only do so much. like you said she doesn't have time. although there is a helper you should offer to help. this way you can come closer to your mom.
good luck to you.
2006-06-14 17:10:35 · answer #7 · answered by mumtaz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is sad. Parents need to make time for their children. I agree, talk to her. Maybe she doesn't realize how you feel. One thing I know for sure, God always has time for you. You can talk to him anytime, and he'll listen, he'll even answer if you listen with your heart.
2006-06-14 14:35:41 · answer #8 · answered by Matt B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why is she acting like that and tell her you have been trying to spend time with her because she acts as if she doesn't have time for you
2006-06-14 14:36:01 · answer #9 · answered by Renta Poo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her a letter on her pillow telling her how you feel. Tell her you miss her and want to talk to her. Maybe she doesn't know how you feel.
2006-06-14 14:33:31 · answer #10 · answered by Stacy R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her about this and let her know how u feel, when u do this u can give her surprises, like making a surprise dinner for her or something like that
2006-06-14 15:02:28 · answer #11 · answered by zkimmy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋