I am going through a relationship where the guy is really into me but i am not that into him and he is allways showing up out of no where. He is suficating me, and i dont want to tell him cause it will hurt his fellings ,and i cant call it off because my familyis in love with him but i am not. does this make me a horrible person. and how can i break it to him that i need some space
2006-06-14 07:29:47 · 3 answers · asked by TadPole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by not telling him your hurting him more. the day will come where you will crush him better to snatch the bandaid off rather then slowly peel it away. be open and honest and show respect but do it soon.
2006-06-14 07:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible for someone to provide too much attention and be way to available. Talk to him and let him know you like spending time with him but then you need your own time alone as well. Maybe talk to some of his friends and ask them to get him out more so this leaves more time for you. Your not a horrible person for wanting your space. Talk to your family as well they might be able to help out and may not be aware of how your feeling.
2006-06-14 07:33:40 · answer #2 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are really just going to need to talk to him. Tell him that you still want to date, but there are times when you need to be away from him for a while. But, if you really don't want to date him. Then you are going to have to find a nice way to break it off. Just because he likes you, and everyone else likes him, does not make it the perfect man for you. Do whats best for you. Its your life!
2006-06-14 07:34:32 · answer #3 · answered by thegirlnextdoor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋