What do I do about this ex boyfriend of mine. He ripped my heart out way to long ago but he is still in it?

Question

So I dated a boy who is a sophmore when I was a senior(Highschool) from september to end of december this year. I'm not going to lie some of it was total hell, but for three weeks out of it all it was complete bliss and those 3 weeks had to be the greatest three weeks I have ever had with a boy (not having sex but just having each other)

It's been over forever now and we have fought and been friends and every emotion u can possibly imagin has gone by us. Both of us have seem other people since but none of the guys have compared to him and when I kiss them all i can imagin are that there his wonderful lips i was sucking on agein.
He is dating this 16 year old girl right now who has had about 16 partners in sex and it kills me when i see them together. We are now like extreamly good friends and we visit each other every night to talk about everything.

I'm leaving for college soon I am sure he is the only boy I have ever loved Should I tell him befor i'm gone. when? where? how?

I don't want to date him we are done I'm leaving i want someone else but should I tell him that i love him and care about him before I go

Answer 1

I'm going through the same thing, pretty much. It's just best to leave the past in the past. You both are probly completly different people now. You need to stop loving the memory of him, and eventually you'll stop loving them. just move on and and wait for the right person, they will come.