what do i do if this is my husbands baby and he don't want anything to do with it?

Question

my husband my have another baby by another woman but she was sleeping with another guy at the same time.
me and my husband split for 2 months last year and we are back together but she is saying she is pregnant with his baby and she is still with the other guy she way sleeping with. my husband don't want to be with her or have anything to do with her. He don't want nothing to do with the baby. I hope it is not his. we have two kids already and i am pregnant now. she is due sept. 29 of this year.me and him got back together on new years

i was pregnant and was due on sept. 29 of this year just like her. but i had a misscarriage. but i don't get how she is due when i was due?

we have two other children together and he takes care of them. but he doesn't think it is his. i told him if he wants to be in the childs life i would be there to. because i would want my children to know if they have a 1/2 sibling.

Answer 1

Sounds like you're married to a self centered man who does not know how to be a man. All he wants to do is satisfy his sexual desires no matter what it takes. He is going to have to face up to his responsibilities of not keeping his thing in his pants. If he is the father, he will have to pay child support. That is the law.

Answer 2

Get a DNA Test. But if it is his, he will have to pay child support, that's the price you pay when you don't play it safe. Sorry. But if it is his child, he needs to have something to do with it. How would you feel if he didn't have anything to do with your children? Better yet, how would they feel? It's not the child's fault his parents made bad decisions. Don't Punish that baby. Hope everything turns out for the best, and you all make the right decision.

Answer 3

FIRST OF ALL,WHAT DO YOU MEAN HE WANTS NOTHING TO DO WITH THE BABY? HE DOESN'T EVEN KNOW IF IT IS HIS,AND IF IT IS HE BETTER WANT SOMETHING TO DO WITH IT OR HE REALLY AIN'T ****. WHAT HE NEEDS TO DO IS WAIT UNTIL THE CHILD IS BORN AND REQUEST A DNA TEST,THEN GO FROM THERE. AND WHEN ARE U DUE? YOU SHOULD BE WORRIED ABOUT WHY IS HE SLEEPING WITH ANOTHER WOMAN. CAUSE REALLY,YOU BEING A WOMAN AND A MOTHER, AND HIM BEING A MAN, THE BOTH OF YOU,IF THE CHILD IS HIS, NEEDTO LOVE AND CARE FOR THAT CHILD AS IF IT WERE YOUR OWN

Answer 4

He will have to take a paternity test.If the baby is his,and he wants nothing to do with the baby,then he can sign away his rights.The only one benefiting from that though are you two.Oterwise he will have to pay child support.If it is his,he should own up to it.How would you feel if the situation was reversed?Also,it's not the baby's fault.

Answer 5

A paternity test will have to be done to prove who the father is.

I have to ask this...why would YOU want anything to do with a man that wants nothing to do with a child he may have fathered? What kind of human being is he??

Answer 6

u need a dna test it could happen that u 2 were do that the same time

Answer 7

WELL WHO MIS TO SAY FOR SURE WHOS IT IS.HE SHPULDNT HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH IT UNTIL YOU GET A DNA TEST DONE! AND IF SHE CLAIMS ITS HIS TELL HER WHEN SHE GETS THE TEST RESULTS AND YOU DO TO THEN HE MIGHT HAVE SOMETHING TO DO WITH IT!WHY HAVE HIM GO OUT OF HIS WAY,IT MIGHT BE THE OTHER GUYS.THEY CAN DO AN AMNIOSENTESIS TEST TO PROVE WHOS IT IS WHILE SHES PREGNANT!

Answer 8

you need to get a DNA test, if she goes after him for child support, then you can fight it and get the DNA test done through the courts.

Answer 9

All it takes is one time so maybe it is his. Tell him a baby is innocent so get a life.

Answer 10

i waz watchin that 2day on Maury u should call that DNA # 2 c if it's really his