I don't understand the concept of why somebody would be upset if somebody else cheated on them. Could somebody explain it in a way I can understand. I don't understand why somebody would be upset when their lover is cheating on them or with them. Explain this to me.
2006-06-14 07:26:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I still don't understand the problem of somebody having more than one lover. What's the big deal about it?
2006-06-14 10:29:13 · update #1
WELL IM UPSET THAT MY EX BOYFRIEND CHEATED ON ME EVEN THOUGH IDIDNT LIKE HIM AND I WANTED TO BREAK UP WITH HIM, I GUESS IS JUST CAUSE OF THE FACT OF THE ACTION.
2006-06-14 07:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by west side rider 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if you love someone and really want to be with that person why would you want to cheat on them? So if you go cheat on them you lose there trust and really hurt the that person. If you feel the need to cheat then you shouldn't be in the relationship.
2006-06-14 07:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by rainofshadows20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because cheating is wrong! It's a matter of self respect, respect for others and ones overall integrity. Being in a relationship involves commitment and if someone is cheating that commitment is broken.
2006-06-14 07:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person that you cheat on could really care about you alot and you showed that you don't care about that person by cheating on them you just flushed their trust down the drain how would you feel if someone that you cared about cheated on you??????
2006-06-14 07:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating hurts. and if u have ever been cheated on then u know what that other person is going through. they are not mad at THAT person just mad at the fact that they are cheating
2006-06-14 07:30:54 · answer #5 · answered by browneyedgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because its wrong and there is no real love there....plus running the risk of all these STDs
2006-06-14 07:35:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because of the betrayal of trust.
2006-06-14 07:30:22 · answer #7 · answered by pjthedj247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋