why are some people so miserable they abuse other to make themselves feel better? Y dont they just kill emself

Answer 1

SAME REASON THAT YOU ARE A BAD SPELLER

Answer 2

well people like that normally likes it when others are miserable too. They are selfish enough to think that they should not be the only ones whose life should be run by misery. I was in the same position with my grandmother, i thought that she was the most miserable person on this planet. She would tell lies about me to other family members, even call me names like "jacket", "whore", "thief" and a whole lot more. I was so frustrated, i had to find out why she was behaving like that. I then came to the conclusion that since she was so miserable, and i was so happy she felt jealous of my happiness and wanted a little company so she began verbally abusing me and made my life a living hell, trust me they do get the kicks out of that. But the only thing that i used to conquer that was by totally ignoring her and telling her every once in a while that i loved her until she stopped, for a while. So if there is someone out there doing that to you, try and ignore them and show deep affection towards them , that will work.

Answer 3

Honey you sound like one of those miserable people. No one can abuse you unless you let them. The task of making some one else feel bad is so that the other person is no longer alone, not to make them feel good about bashing another person. Remember the old saying: Misery loves company :(

Answer 4

It's a common thing of a vicious cycle.

Someone made them feel bad so they in return made u feel just to make themselves feel great. killing themselves would still hurt others too because there's always someone caring about that person no matter how horrible he/she has been.

The only way out to go confronting that person. Ask why? has anybody done that to them? And tell them they must stop.

Also, the victims need to stand up for themselves to those who abuse them.

Forgive yourself and forgive others.

Answer 5

Abusing others is not good and killing yourself is not good. Anyone who commits suicide I don't care or have respect for because they chose their life to run from their problems rather than settling them and being a true person about it.

People who abuse others to make themselves feel better is not good in my book neither. When laughter would usually cure things like being miserable, things like taking your problems out on others is just not ood.

I don't know why people do it, I guess they just don't know how to deal with their problems.

Answer 6

People who abuse others were probably, at some time in their lives, abused themselves. They need our compassion, not our rejection. Usually, people like this need some type of counselling to get their lives back on track. If you feel that you are in any type of physical danger by associating with an abusive individual, you definitely should avoid him. However, if you can win his/her trust, you might be able to help. A situation like this takes time to resolve, though. You'll need to be patient.

Answer 7

Some people just can't find a way to make their lives better and therefore they hate their lives so much that they take it on others to make themselves feel better.

Now on the issue of suicide most people don't have the guts to kill themselves. What we should have is assited suicide in this country so that those who feel that they can't take it anymore can end their lives and spare us all of their misery.

Answer 8

People abuse others maybe because they have been abused themselves and they think it is the right thing to do. And you telling them that they should kill themselves is a very idiotic thing to do. These people need help, and you are not helping them by saying they should commit suicide.

Answer 9

some people have not experienced love before, the past relationships that they have been thru have been hurtful, and some of them have been physically and emotionally hurt, and sometimes this is all that they know- they have been hurt so many times, that they hurt other people, and sometimes dont even know that they are doing it because they are so used to it..they have tried to commit suicide, and didnt do it right,, and they really dont have the guts to do it.

Answer 10

Misery loves company!

Answer 11

if someone is being abused they need to get out of the relationship....people who hurt other people are insecure with themselves,,,,,,,don't suggest they kill themselves that is a bit much.....