please help me
ok I been with my bf for about 7 month, we work at the same jab but different areas. I attend college, he doesn’t so after work he goes home goes to sleep or play video station or visit his family. The PROBLEM we have right now is that we just start having sex about 2 weeks ago, and he doesn’t even now were I leave, never meet my family! The reason is that my parents wouldn’t approve him because he is not in school he smokes which they would not now right away, but is just not the right guy that I can take home and let him meet my family he is not happy with that , but I love him too am so confused. And he always says that is just tempera bf. So right now we are not actually talking because on Tuesday at work we were talking and I said I have to call ur mother and tell her what was wrong with u! and he said MY MOTHER DOESN’T NOW U SHE IS GOING TO SAY O are u one of my sons groupies that really pest me of and I just walked away form him he didn’t even call or want to now
2006-06-14 06:57:18 · 14 answers · asked by sweet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you speaking english? I'm not even sure what you said.
2006-06-14 07:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by kiss me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness, you just rambled on and on! I hope you feel better about letting it all out!
The only thing I can tell you is it's starting off very wrong! If you have been dating officially for 7 months, the whole parent meeting thing should have been done a long time ago. I know you love him, but have some dignity, let him call YOU. If he doesn't, that tells you everything right there, no need to investigate any further! To me it seems like you're kind of young, so, take it easy, life is like this. Just learn from your experiences, and enjoy life.
2006-06-14 14:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by xcelix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why you pissed off gal you have not told your family about him either for you he is not the type of guy to take home to rite may be your the type of gal whom he can not take home to either!! First of all whom do you want to see happy yourself or your parents cause in your case its either one or the other! 2nd why would you date a guy whom you know from the beginning that your parents will not approve off how stupid is that? Love someone without condition that's only true love if you love him for one thing and not another is not cool! As for your parents they are not doing anything if they say that the guy your with has some good qualities every parent want to see their child in good hands someone reliable and educated!
Looks like he ended everything with you his way! Sorry to break it to you but where i stand seems like its over, he doesn't care about you at all!!
2006-06-14 14:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by Pari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd start talking to your parents without him there. Display his good qualities first. Tell your parents if they don't like him then its 2 bad!! With your bf tell him about your worries about him meeting your parents. Go from there if ya need more advice email me @
dawnrocks_101@yahoo.com
2006-06-14 14:08:19 · answer #4 · answered by D-ster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing, if ur in college you should be an adult, so why are you worried what they think.
second thing would be that it sounds like ya'll are just having fun
and are not counting on the relationship to be serious, so have your fun and if he never talks to you again find another fun partner
to play with
2006-06-14 14:06:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just cut him. sounds like he's just playing mind games with you. if you do find someone else that you think your parents wouldn't aprove of i say you should let them meat anyway. they may not be happy with who you choose but you're young and they relaize that you have to go through all this in order to grow as a person
2006-06-14 14:03:04 · answer #6 · answered by kansasgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find someone better at school. Very few relationships can handle just on person going to college.
2006-06-14 14:04:48 · answer #7 · answered by scooty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hate to tell you this,but i think that he was cheating on you to begin with.And you are sooooooo stupid to have had sex with him i mean what did you think would happen hun! Its actually your fault.You are so stupid and i'm sorry to say that but its true. before you he probably had sex with about 20 people and those 20 people he slept with you slept with too.
2006-06-14 14:07:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never be with a guy who disrespects you..love yourself..you deserve better..Stop the cycle now before it goes any further..He sounds like a real jerk...drop him.
2006-06-14 14:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by Lucky One 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is a hard sitiuation to be in well i would try to talk to him bout it but if it doesnt work then he isnt the right guy for you and i would just tell you parent that they might not appove of him but you love him and you wanted to be with im and they shoudl respeact your feeling sry if they doent but you have to give it a try ......good luck with that
2006-06-14 14:02:31 · answer #10 · answered by tropical_sweety2587 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would end this kind of relationship. This man will cause you more heartbreak in the future unless you do something about it.
2006-06-14 14:04:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋