Is it ok to be dating 3 girls at one time and not tell them about it or should I tell them there are others?

Answer 1

It depends. Have you implied that you are dating any of them exclusively? Have you had sex with any of them. If you have indicated that you are not looking for an exclusive relationship and you have been honest with them from the start, that should be okay. If you have implied that you are dating them exclusively or if you have had sex with any of them - yes, you are cheating.

If these girls are just hanging out with you and "playing the field" also, then let them know. BUT, if these girls think they are in a serious relationship with you, then you need to let them all go, you don't deserve any of them.

Also, you better pray that none of them find out by accident because the old saying is true. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Have you ever seen the movie Fatal Attraction? Don't be foolish because there are some real psychos out there.

Answer 2

in a female perspective its not okay to be dating 3 girls at one time and not tellin them, but then again boys are to be boys what i mean by that is there are guys who feels that they need to be a player and date other females b/c their scared or they feel that she might be seeing someone else also. and they don't want to look like the a fool. but some guys who r players majority always get caught and end up being alone. but if u know how 2 play your cards right then u wont get caught. but then again out of those 3 girls i think your feeling for 1 of them, cause if that wasn't the case u wouldn't be asking.


But if that's not the case i still think that u should tell them what it is be real about yours and if they still **** wit u then they cant blame u for what ever happens b/c its wasnt like they didnt know what they were going against wit

Answer 3

why are you dating 3 girls in the first place?? pick the one you like most, break up with the other two, and let the fact that you were dating them all at the same time be your little secret

Answer 4

NOT OK...but dealing with it depends on how u feel about the girls. If you dont want to hurt them, maybe you shouldnt tell them, but deffinately dont continue dating 3 at a time. pick the one that makes you the happiest, that you can learn the most from. As a girl i know i want to know the truth about why when a guy brakes up with me, but if you rly dont want to hurt them, maybe telling them isn't such a great idea. but dont continue keeping the secret going, you dont HAVE to tell about it, but you should deffinately pick just one

Answer 5

If you are playing the field, and just dating and not telling any one chic that you are commited to only her than there is nothing wrong with it. If asked just don't lie if they don't like it they can move on. There are others out there that don't want a commitment.

Answer 6

I think you should let the others know.
How would you feel if you found out that one on the girls your dating is also dating two other guys and didnt tell you?
You'd be pissed.

Answer 7

No, its not ethically right to date more than one at a same time.

Answer 8

be a man & take responsibility for ur actions. let the girls know about each other. & quit stringing them along

Answer 9

it is called cheating
if you are really serious with any of them i think you should tell them
and if you are gonna tell 1 or 2 than just tell all 3
you are not only hurting them but, hurting yourself. when your ready tell them

Answer 10

HELL NO
its not ok!!!!!!!!!!
thats cheating, and i would tell them cuz its hurtful to the other grls.... thats really mean man
just dump two of them, and pick the one grl who means most to u
good luck