Ok I am back agin but this time my BF came to my house this past weekand but he was so drunk and about hit my tree in my front yard with my mom and dad and sister inside well we were talking and he was mad because he thinks that I like somebody else I tried to tell him I didnt but he would not hear anything about it so I called his brother and him and his friends came down to drive his car home and take him to well he called me the day after and told me that he was sorry well I just found out that I am having his baby and I told him one day he will say he wounts the baby and that he loves the baby then another day he will say that he does not wount or baby what is wrong with him what is wrong with me why do I put up with his crap all the time please tell me what I need to do.....
2006-06-14 06:19:26 · 5 answers · asked by baby_05face 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Oh yeah and he is 21 years old I am only 19 years old he is not a baby anymore he should be grown up but I still love him even when I think about he I wount he even more and see he thinks I like his brother but I really dont I mean he is only 16 years old and if I liked his brother I would be with him but I dont I really like my bf I have alot I would do anything for him and he dont understand that.....
2006-06-14 08:23:00 · update #1
sounds like a difficult situation, but if you step back and look at it objectively you'll see this man is not good for you or your baby. he seems to have committment problems and is immature and confused.. Cut him loose and let fate take its course. If it turns out his priorities come around to you and the baby then fine. If not, you'll be better off ending the games now rather than after you have a child to care for. Your independence is important, now more than ever.
2006-06-14 06:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by gentlesoul_63 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk with his parents and tell them you think he needs to seek counseling.
Not sure why you put up with all this mess. You're pregnant, and right now, you REALLY don't need the stress.
It could be that you love him and are willing to stick with him through thick and thin. It could be that you suffer from a lack of self worth and don't think you can do any better. It could be that you're afraid of raising a baby alone.
2006-06-14 13:30:28 · answer #2 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave his a$$.
As of right now he doesn't DESERVE to be the father to your baby.
If he wants to grow up and be a man, then you can consider it, but for right now your number ONE priority should be the baby your carrying and you!
2006-06-14 13:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by someoneoutthere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, your baby doesnt need that and neither do you! when he grows up a little then maybe he can be a father
2006-06-14 13:25:53 · answer #4 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats wrong with him? He's a confused kid. Surely you don't expect him to act like a responsible adult?
2006-06-14 13:39:21 · answer #5 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋