my bf hasn't talked to me in days should i break up with him?

Question

we have only been going out for a month and we talked for 2 weeks straight everyday and then all of a sudden he stops talking to me and stops answering my emails what should i do

Answer 1

Drop him like a bad habit...now.

Answer 2

Something could be going on with him that may not have anything to do with you. If that is true, it would be better if he felt comfortable enough to share it with you. Or, maybe there is something that has to do with you, and you need to find out what that is. Keeping the lines of communication open is key to a good relationship. And if there is something to be resolved, also use this opportunity to create more trust and intimacy, to turn a corner in your relationship.

If he has just decided he doesn't want to go out with you anymore, and this is how he lets you know, then he is not emotionally mature and you are better off without him. But first, you need to find out. Is there a mutual friend who may know what's going on? Don't feel weird about asking this other person...if you two are truly bf and gf, you have every right to know. Just try not to get too emotional when you speak with this other person...show you care but also remain cool and say you know you should be treated well. The reason I suggest this is if he does want to break up, you, I hope, would want to walk away with your head held high. You want to keep your self-esteem intact. And, I repeat, if that is what is going on, you are better off without him. You deserve someone who knows how to be a real friend to you, first and foremost!

Answer 3

chill out on the talking for a bit. I had to do that to. Guys hate talking every day all the time. Just relax and talk less often and not everyday. If he really wants to be with you you'll know. If it continues then i'd dump him.

Answer 4

Sit down and talk to him. Face to face. Communication is the key. Find out what hes thinking. Maybe he thought that you werent interested in him since you havent put out in the first 2 weeks. He may think that its too difficult. He may have moved on to someone that will.

You need to find out.

Answer 5

I thinl hehas move on maye u should too but u need to make sure u no the whole story wen u talk to him ask him and then if the story he sayd is good than forgive him but if it sounds like a lie u beter dumo him and if he gets mad casue u asked him y he aint call u he is cheatin.

GOD bless you.

Answer 6

Try to talk to him about it. Ask him if he still likes you. Sometimes guys are soo weird about. They dont like to talk everyday so just time a chill pill and relax. Dont worry soo much. I hope everything works out for you.

Answer 7

i dont think you should have a bf in the first place because as you grow older and you have a bf and get married to him he will always think you cheated on him because you did it with him how come you wont do it with sombody eles? oh by the way break up wih him he might be cheating on you

Answer 8

no, jeez. give him some room. everyday for two straight weeks. thats ridiculous. real relationships aren't like that. its not a fairy tale. actually you should break up with him. you need to learn basics to a relationship before you get into one.

Answer 9

ttry to talk to him.....then break up with him. he obviously has something "better"..not saying anythign mean about u. but thats just how guys think. they see something new they go for it. most likely there is someone else. break up with him, befor eyou find out from somone else stuff. thats they only way you wont get hurt.

Answer 10

well if you know where he lives knock on his door and ask him whats up...... and that you think he is trying to get rid of you so tell him to and tell him that you love him and just wants to know whats up just sound sooo sincere and loving but if you don't know where he lives just keep callin look in the phone book anything don't dump him.