Intamacy do young men know what it is..???

Question

young men between 18teen and 90yrs old.. Do you men know what "INTAMACY" is.. do you know what it mean.. please tell me what your definision of this is.. becouse this generation is losing out.. ??? please give examples... so i can see if you know..... for sure.. what it is..

P.s. this is not romance.. or love.. it is not sex... so what is intamacy..

Answer 1

Intamacy to me is laying curled tightly up on the couch with the one I love watching our favorite movie.....dark room...candles burning...while we share some popcorn and a drink...or standing in the shower with the one I love before going to bed and talking about the days we both just had while holding each other tight before we wash each other off and then retire to the bed.

Answer 2

Most young men have a very distorted and perverted concept of what woman-hood is all about. This is mostly due to the way women are portrayed in the media, and the powerful sex drive that is all consuming to a young man.

If you want an intimate relationship with a young man, you have got to cultivate it. That means, it will take time, time that you must invest without any guarantees. Remember, the fact that you're young means you want, instant gratification and you are entitled to what ever you desire. Keeping this in mind will help you to fight those huge misconceptions.

Here are some basic rules for a young female seeking an intimate relationship with a young man:
1. No intimate relationship starts with sex. It is the best way to kill any chance you got. Don't do it!
2. You can't change a guy, so don't waste your time trying. If he's a jerk, don't waste your time on him. If he's crazy, insecure, crude, selfish, self centered, egomaniac, sadistic, etc; you need not bother. There are too many others to choose from.
3. Set standards for your self and stand by them.
4. Do not lower your self. Always take the high road, even at the expense of a bruised ego.
5. Always tell the truth. This is a tough one for young women. They are by nature, the biggest liars on the face of the planet. This is usually done in the name of kindness, or not hurting someone’s feeling. Be a straight shooter, guys have mucho respect for that.
6. Develop your interests and become an interesting person. A woman needs more than just to look hot. She needs to be interesting to be with and to talk to. Otherwise, the only thing you'll be good for is sack time.
7. Life is not a fairy tale. Often, a perfectly good guy will fall in love with you, but you won't love him. These are great opportunities for you. Given the time, you may develop very strong feelings for him. It is always better to be loved than abused. Remember that next time you catch yourself throwing yourself at someone who doesn't love you.
8. Stay healthy and take care of yourself.

Remember, intimacy is not found. It's like having a baby, you have to make it happen.

Answer 3

Sorry to say, but it seems to be a dying art, along with cassette tapes and vinyl records...things of the past. Guys just don't want to take the time to just be with a gal. There's always gotta be more. While I know there are a few guys who know what true intimacy is, many of the young guys haven't been taught this by their parents. Since divorce is so high, many kids don't see intimacy modeled by their parents. They see arguing, hear yelling and witness the cold silences that make up the relationships around them. Kids learn what they see. If you want your kids to know what intimacy is, you'll have to show them. When they get in their teens, you tell them. Explain to them the difference between sex and intimacy. Now I got a question for today's youth...if your husband/wife got in a car accident and was permanently disabled and not able to have sex anymore, how long would you remain in that marriage? Some of you would stick it out, staying true to your vows. Many would leave because they don't want to put someone else's needs first. Those who stay learn what intimacy really is. Though I'm not answering this as a guy, I just wanted to put my two cents in and make a few people think. Good question. Let's hope something good comes out of it. <*)))><

Answer 4

You are going to see if they know? Honey, you can't even spell properly or write a complete sentence and now you are going to judge other people's knowledge? When you are old enough to spell intimacy, definition, because, etc... then come back and ask your questions. In the meantime, concentrate on your education.

Answer 5

Intimacy is simply getting to know a significant other. Knowing the little things, the personal things (like background, family life and what her pet hamster's name is). It is spending time with a significant other and remembering her personal likes and figuring out her dislikes. Simply put, it means to UNDERSTAND a significant other by spending and investing the time to getting to know her. Tell me if I am right.

Answer 6

intimacy is holding each other for hours for no reason except that you like to be close.

romance is bringing home flowers for no reason except that you wanted to give her flowers.

kindness is saying How about I cook dinner, you go watch TV and maybe take a short nap.

love is having all of these with the same person.

Answer 7

I’m in age of that so, Yes intimacy is to be intimae with yo girl to love her and to give here love! not the same as f u c k!

Answer 8

I know exactly what it is but I'm feeing way too lazy to explain. Sort of a stupid question anyway. Sounds like you just haven't been dating the right men.

Answer 9

Nope

Answer 10

I, for example, love taking showers with my girlfriend (when I have one). Not for sexual purposes... well... sometimes for sexual purposes... but mostly just for being together, alone. You know? To spend some time and appreciate that other person.

Is that intimate?