2006-06-14 05:38:46 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop teasing the poor guy and just give it up. How would you like it if I dangled a trip to paris in front of your face only to tell you you couldn't go?
2006-06-14 05:41:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I honestly believe that it depends on your relationship. My current boyfriend and I have a very happy relationship and have been together for over 2 years and we had sex on our second date. It just seemed right and we were both comfortable with it. However, that is not recommended for everyone. Wait until you both feel the time is right, start off being content to kiss and cuddle and hold hands and let things naturally progress. Usually manual and oral sex come first in a relationship and if you don't feel comfortable with that you know you're not ready to progress to sex yet. Don't push it, if you really like the guy you want it to be special :)
2006-06-14 05:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The night you get married. That is the best time to start having sex in any relationship. Period.
I wouldn't advise having sex before marriage, but if you want to take the risk, go for it, but be careful and don't be tricked into having sex or have it forced opun you.
2006-06-14 05:43:16 · answer #3 · answered by Ryogen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget marriage... look at the divorce rate..
Plus different nookie at different age bands is part of growing up... Example whens the last time you ssaw 40 year old parents making out in cinemas, in the toilets at a mates party, on the back seat of the car on lovers point etc...
Or girls vs boys college pranks like stealing underwear and tying it to the flagpole...or at a concert. or being a groupie. etc.
Agewise... 17ish best but having started dating etc from around 14 so having worked your way up and done most none all the way stuff before hand... Much better for when you do. You will be good at foreplay and more comfortable with each other and not tense.
Also the older you are the less the waiting... In uni/college you may start by pulling each other at a party and wanting to see each other more.
Maybe 6months dating but if under 16 wait... you can always practice feel up stuff, maybe blow and hand jobs 16-17 etc... (just remember any seimen on fingers or slashes or dribbles say down butt crack or on underwear ... still works... ie any way in or near (it swims remember) and can get you preggers so pill first and std checks.
Basically when you both feel comfortable and can't wait to get your mitts on each other and go for it.
And my way having done the whole hand job, ********, boob job thing al lot and strip poker and spy on each other in the shower, strip tease etc...
You won't be so uncomfortable when going to do it. Or just lying there. More like extending pole or lap dance with hands... or wind him up... no hands till I say so or no more dance and let him stuff till he is ready to burst to get his hands on you.
Also PILL PLUS condoms , Condoms are the back up (ideally patch or injection so you don't forget to take it or take it late. Plus do a practice run on morning after pills inc on sundays etc.
2006-06-14 06:32:46 · answer #4 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best time in a relationship to start having sex is when your not being called easy or when your man is tired of waiting and wants to start cheating and it depends on if hes the one and by the 1 i mean (he treats u like a queen,caters 2 u, and loves u not lust u ) and it depends how old r u so when ever you feel safe with him i would say that's the best time to start having sex or you can just say **** it I'm horny and give it up in 3to 4 months or(3 to4 weeks) its up to you sweetie no one on here can tell you when your ready to have sex their probably going to tell u just what I'm telling u (and between me and you and who Eva reads this their probably hoes or virgins or have an std so make sure u use a condom when ever u do decide to have sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!and that real.
2006-06-14 05:47:05 · answer #5 · answered by kk so fly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On your wedding night. If you cannot wait that long, then after 1 year of dating. That way you have time to learn who this other person really is and if you get pregnant, you'll have a relationship with him instead of a 2 month fling followed by him running fast.
2006-06-14 05:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u show responsibilities like birth control.cause sex=babies be prepared for the consequences all birth control methods r 99% foil proof.but that 1% can change Ur whole life! having a baby means u have to be connected to the father in some ways like child support and visitations. get married , knowing u have a father for Ur child is the best u can do for Ur children.
2006-06-14 05:45:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait at least 6 months... if you are under 17... wait till you are 17 or 18.
No man wants a girl who started getting tore up at 14.
2006-06-14 05:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by Ozymandias 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are in love. lusty sex is good i guess, but it will make you feel more connected than you actually are. and we women can get clingy when we feel very connected to someone, so it's best to have sex when you love the person already so that you won't be confused about if you love him or not.
2006-06-14 05:42:08 · answer #9 · answered by Carly j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think within the first month. That way, If you dont like it. Kick them to the curb before you get too attatched and feel obligated to spend the rest of your life being misserable and having un-pleasant and unwanted fun.
2006-06-14 05:41:41 · answer #10 · answered by budgetcasket 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months so that your relationship is not sex based
2006-06-14 05:48:55 · answer #11 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋