My dad yelled at me and my sister last night for getting a half inch streak of paint on my moms leather seats of her car. then when my mom came home last night at 11 she asked why I looked so gloomy and I shrugged my shoulders, then my dad came over and was acting all anxios and grumpy and my mom asked if he had been like that all night so I told her about the paint and she yelled at him this morning. The he lectured me about telling her and how he didnt like me telling her about stuff like that and he talked in a low stern voice and talked about how we need to work together as a family and I have to listen to them. but I dont know how I can listen to them when they never try to listen to me. There are so many things they should know about me, my dad barely knows me because he is always at work, he forgets how old I am and what grade I'm in somtimes. There are so many reasons that some nights I cry unontrolably. what do i do?!
2006-06-14 05:19:51 · 10 answers · asked by chica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I dont want to tell my mom because she has a heart problem and I dont want her to freak.
2006-06-14 05:20:34 · update #1
some times I feel like a shaken coke bottel trying to keep it all in. soon I may explode. PLEASE HELP!
2006-06-14 05:21:36 · update #2
So does mine deal with it.
2006-06-14 05:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by kaity_bugg11 2 · 2⤊ 12⤋
Well it sounds like you & your family need to learn to communicate more. From reading what you said, I think your father needs to sit down with you & just let everything out. Share things with him that you have experienced & make sure that he listens until you are done. Most importantly, the family as a whole needs to work on communicating more. Tell your father that he needs to learn to listen to everyone before he pops his cork.
2006-06-14 05:36:11 · answer #2 · answered by i_am_fireproof_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in high school talk to your school guidance councellor. They can probably help you. Not necessarily talk to your dad or your mom, but help you to deal with how you are feeling and the kind of stress you seem to be under. If you belong to a church talk to a minister there they are also equiped to help you deal with the pressure you are under.
2006-06-14 05:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by wyldcatt76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try and tell your dad how you feel no one can hold their emotinos in like that you could make yourself sick not a good idea to keep it inside also try praying about it God will know the answer!!
2006-06-14 06:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can answer that. I am a Dad.
I was like that too. My daughter emailed me and told me that she loved me and wanted me to pay attention to her more.
We get caught up in our worries so much. Now we have to work harder to buy the things we want and need. We think sometimes that's all we have to do.
Be frank and tell him that you want to talk more and spend more time with him.
2006-06-14 05:26:15 · answer #5 · answered by madbaldscotsman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your mom and your dad. Start your conversation out with "In all due respect..." It let's them know that you are not trying to be disrespectful. Pray!
2006-06-14 05:36:51 · answer #6 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel!! pray about it! my parents are fighting right now. just try really hard not to make ur dad so mad, i try to stay in my room when my dad gets mad,or i get on the computer and try not to think about it
2006-06-14 05:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by i rawkkk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably should tell your mom. Just sit with her and talk about it sometime.I don't have much advise, I'm realy really sorry. Good luck.
2006-06-14 05:26:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You MUST talk to your parents. They were your age once and they will understand.
2006-06-14 05:36:10 · answer #9 · answered by angelpockets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a hug.
see www.fathersloveletter.com
2006-06-14 05:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by davidvario 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋