I was at my cousins party and this guy that i have been in love with since i was 10, I am 21 now, who is also one of my brothers best friends and a friend of the family was there with his prenant fiance'. After she went home we were talking as usual and he told me how beautiful i was as usual and was making little side remarks. we were all in the house n he went outside n gave me this look so i went outside and he walked to his car n said come here so being under the influence and in love i followed him he then grabbed my face n started makin out wit me n then i thought i heard sumthin so i ws thinkin that he would stop but he didnt he just drove aroun the block and it almost led to sex it didnt cause people at the party kept calling us. Before he took me back he said i was amazing n that he was goin to call me he hasnt but he still gives me his cute little smile when he sees me i dnt no what to say, i need to tell him how i feel he told everyone that he is marying her for the baby!!!
2006-06-14 05:05:25 · 15 answers · asked by imtosexy05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I forgot to mention that he is 26 n ill be turning 21 in 5 months he always flirted with me but i was always too young and his best friennds little sister n i recently lost 60 pounds n when he saw me he just said over n over again how beautiful i was n i recently broke up wit my boyfriend n he said y cause u r too beautiful for him!!!! All im sayin is my entire family only knows that he is marrying this girl only for th baby n no one likes her but i still feel bad i really just want to ask him what that was n tell him how i feel PLEASE what should i say I love him his personality he is the sweetest guy i have ever met n has alwyas looked out for me but look at the circumstaces im finally old enough n he is gettin married to a girl he obviously doesnt love n a baby on the way!!!!!
2006-06-14 06:29:00 · update #1
I forgot to mention that he is 26 n ill be turning 21 in 5 months he always flirted with me but i was always too young and his best friennds little sister n i recently lost 60 pounds n when he saw me he just said over n over again how beautiful i was n i recently broke up wit my boyfriend n he said y cause u r too beautiful for him!!!! All im sayin is my entire family only knows that he is marrying this girl only for th baby n no one likes her but i still feel bad i really just want to ask him what that was n tell him how i feel PLEASE what should i say I love him his personality he is the sweetest guy i have ever met n has alwyas looked out for me but look at the circumstaces im finally old enough n he is gettin married to a girl he obviously doesnt love n a baby on the way!!!!!
2006-06-14 06:29:01 · update #2
There's no need for you to think a lot about that guy because (no offense meant), he is not serious to have a relationship with you, not ever. Why? Because through all those years that he has known you, was there a single chance that he said that he loved you? If there wasn't which could really be your answer, don't deceive yourself that what he did to you during the party was a sign that he had romantic feelings for you. That could have been lust. L U S T.
He could have learned from other people your feelings for him or could have by himself noticed it from your actions. That could have moved him to play around with you even just for that night more especially when both of you could have been both under the influence of liquors.
His prenant girlfriend is the living proof that he wasn't thinking of having a relationship with you. Please open your eyes to this truth. Otherwise, it should have been you who is pregnant right now and not her girlfriend for you should have been his girlfriend at this time considering that you've come of age.
Eleven years was more than enough for him to know his feelings for you. If he had that special feeling for you, he should have courted you in stead. But don't worry. Always remember that there are lots of men somewhere out there. Be more sociable and visible with your friends. Chances are, you may meet the one really meant for you who may just be waiting for your eyes to set on his. That moment will be the beginning of your new love story. Good luck.
2006-06-14 05:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny he sounds like a dirt bag! Sorry but if he is unhappy with this other girl then he will leave her on his own. If he is marrying her for the baby then thats his own dicisson and mistake. I would stay away, tell him that is actions were not cool if you must. But stay away. you do not want to be labled a family crusher, the last things this girl needs is someone pursueing her man while shes pregnant. Think about how you would feel. Sorry to be so blunt, but while I was pregnant my boyfreind cheated on me. It didn't work out in the end but it didn't feel good at all. Especially while your pregnant your feeling as unattractive as you could possibly get.
2006-06-14 05:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by Emma S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After the little one is born have the paternity scan regardless. If the little one is yours then it is yours. Now that used to be realistic. BUT, if the little one is not yours then 2 matters can occur, you'll take delivery of the baby or reject the baby. Either manner the little one merits to have a scientific historical past of his organic father and that aspect of the loved ones. Adopted youngsters are typically scoffed at however they're selected, typically fought for and regularly desired. That is greater than a few traditional youngsters can say. So what ever you do, what ever you make a decision, get the child a scientific historical past of his organic father regardless of who that probably.
2016-09-09 01:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by cosco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did he wait until he had a preg fiance to make a move?
If he cares about you why has he not talked to you about what happened. What was that? Did he just find you attractive and desided to get it out of the way but did not complete get what he wanted. Will he call you one day wanting to f u and forget you.
What's the deal, your going to let this egotistic jerk take advantage of the fact that he know you would do anything for him?
2006-06-14 05:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by castillo5247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter if he is marrying her for the baby or not, he is just playing you. Even if you have loved him forever let him go. He will only break your heart or do the same thing that he is doing to her to you. How would you feel if you were her.
2006-06-14 05:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by luckymom43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EEEWWWWW! come on gurl! The guy is a cad! he's cheating on his "pregnant" girlfriend and i think thats really really disgusting>he just wanted to get some free sex. how can u have feelings for such a guy? u don even know him well. what if u hooked up with him, and one day when u were pregnant,he made out with someone else???Disgusting guy!
2006-06-14 05:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how much you might like him, back off. Do you really want to be tangled up in this mess? You're only 21. And he hasn't called. When a guy is into you, no matter what's going on in his life, he will call you. Find one that is single and will call.
2006-06-14 05:09:19 · answer #7 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay far away i promise if he really loved you he would already be with you i dont like girls like you. i just had a baby, and im getting married next week if your the girl thats with my man you better run. you dont want to get involved with that drama look for someone else.
2006-06-14 05:14:09 · answer #8 · answered by BB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will cause a big MESS! that could be you pregnant and your man cheating on you! and as an adult i suggest you NOT tell the poor pregnant girl, she has enough to deal with and she surly knows already she is having a baby with a DOG!
I know you want to go with it cause it is exciting and what you think you want, but you will be next on his cheating list....just save yourself heart break, and imbarrasment...
2006-06-14 05:15:53 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me see..cute little thang or pregnant fiancee....da! It was the circumstances, combined with the party mood that lead to a lust full encounter...leave it at that, nothing good will come of this.
2006-06-14 05:12:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋