I have a large pen.is(8 1/4 long, 6 1/2 around), and I've only been with one girl, my current girlfriend. She is pretty small and I am the only guy shes been with also. I think she finds my size more of a burden than anything else (and I go slow) and I end up feeling unattractive. My question is do women generally like BIG guys, or is my situation common? Honesty please.
2006-06-14 05:03:38 · 14 answers · asked by Charleton Sexton 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh just for the record Im not that young, we were both late bloomers, and I "lost it" at 21.
2006-06-14 05:18:43 · update #1
yeah the bigger the better...as you matured you see your perspective change.For now your girlfriend thinks its quite a burden for he..well time will come she can adjust to it.just don't force yourself too deep maybe she's scared..just let her feel comfortable as much as you can
2006-06-14 05:13:04 · answer #1 · answered by effy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It won't be so much a burden on you as you get older. You really shouldn't feel unattractive. Just try different positions and techniques that both of you will enjoy. Just being honest, it's all in how you use it. The size most of the time doesn't matter. Talk to your girlfriend and find out what she feels. Actually most women would probably think her very lucky.
2006-06-14 05:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by jacquelinebrns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know all guys think they want a big penis but when its too big it does become a burden. Most times it hurts if they go in all the way and that is not good. Pain and sex dont go together for me. I prefer average size.
2006-06-14 05:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know to me it really doesnt matter. you got a big one there. But you know i dont think she feels that its a burden. I would think it would be good because whenever yall have sex, it would hit all the right spots. You know what i mean. Dont feel bad, its attractive. My guy isnt near that big but he makes the best of it. You just have to make the best of it too. Bring up your confidence and ask her what she wants. But most of all to answer you question i think its pretty common. hope i could help.
2006-06-14 05:09:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I have never heard a girl complain that her man was too big. Too small, to thin, to short, never to big. You need to make sure you use a lot of lubricant if your not already, you see when you go in her you have to stretch her and if its not lubricated enough it could feel as though your ripping her open. Just be real gentle. Unless your with Pamela Anderson you will probably never be able to have rough sex. LOL JK
2006-06-14 05:15:04 · answer #5 · answered by Danielle W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop flattering yourself man 81/4 long and 61/2 girth is a physical impossibility. You'd have to be much longer for that girth. I'm 9 and thick but dont think it'd be 61/2 girth
2006-06-14 05:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say it is common. I was with a man for 4 years and he was big enought to hurt me everytime thought he did not mean to. I loved his and thought the world of him. But everytime we had sex i cried cause it hurt. I was very attracted to him it is just that our bodies did not conect right. there are wemon out there that would be able to handle it, just some wemon are naturally small. Do not be hurt by it she still cares about you.Good luck and let me know how it goes.
2006-06-14 05:11:05 · answer #7 · answered by chantell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you from experience i have been with guys that have been bigger than my husband and he has still been the only one to make me have multiple orgasms i dont think it has anything do with size. Because my x was huge and he couldnt satisfy me at all not that that's why we broke up but still its not the size that counts its the motion of the ocean
2006-06-14 05:12:37 · answer #8 · answered by sixer_chick3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it depends on the woman some women like them big (like me)some like them small (not me), so yes size does matter.
Your size is something your GF will have to get use too, but if your the first guy she has been with, you really have to give her time to adjust.
2006-06-14 05:08:37 · answer #9 · answered by Raya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 04:00:19 · answer #10 · answered by belfast 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋