I have a tricky question. I am currently going through a divorce and have met someone online. I have physically met him and we seem to really both like each other alot. I know I do like him alot and he says that he does me to. But I am way concerned and insecure. I have been hurt by someone online before and I always let myself fall for people to quick. Anyways he swears he is not talking to anyone else online, but if I get on the site where we met it shows that he has been on there today and he says he has not been on there in a few days. Should I tell him that I know different and ask what is up? I have also thought about just stopping talking to him all together, but then I always answer the phone when he calls or texts. I am so scared I am going to get hurt and do not know what to do.
2006-06-14 04:50:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tellin him what u know is different .. will only make him more alert to make his moves.. he'll be more comfortable liein later since he'll find ways from lettin u know what u now know...( the site thing)
Go out and meet his other pals.. may be some of his old net pals too .. ask him to give his password to u .. so that u can access his account .. see for how long does he allow u access his accounts.. see how he reacts and u'll know what to do..
If u need to get over him ... jst do it once and for all... u'll definately find the one for u !
2006-06-14 05:14:01 · answer #1 · answered by Rays_Ur_Ways 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK meeting someone in line can be good, and at the same bad first you don't really know who is out there.I meet a girl on line and we now live together believe it or not.when you start to get doubts that mean back off, don't chance it because you are just spending time on someone who is just pulling your leg, hope this helps
2006-06-14 11:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by vito194 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its a good idea for u to just jump into another relationship yet, once u've been hurt before, u need alot of time to urself, to heal and ask urself whether u r ready for another relationship, and u cant fully trust this guy cos i dont think u know him too well.
2006-06-14 11:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b open to him let him know what you feel about what you fear and what you discover..he will not know if you don't talk to him honestly..being hurt is just a part of life..every time we hurt we learned something from it.just continue your communication with him don't stops at least you ave fun in your life.
2006-06-14 12:05:41 · answer #4 · answered by effy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel and explain to him about you accidentally noticed that he had been online before that tell him about your insecurities, tell him that you can't handle being hurt again and he should please be absolutely honest with you.
2006-06-14 11:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by dyna_ryan_always 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never trust a man....no matter what they say!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-14 12:30:37 · answer #6 · answered by angelae93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋