i am involved with a man to whom I have known as a fellow student and friend for a while now...he is about to be divorced and we have decided to move in together and start a life together, he has 2 sons, and I 1 daughter, how do you feel about this situation...
2006-06-14 04:48:40 · 10 answers · asked by angel_fire_2149 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're happy then what's there to worry about, right??
That particular situation is very common now days so don't fret it just go for what makes you and your children happy!
2006-06-14 04:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by foxi_brown_eyes 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
if he is "about" to get a divorce that's saying that he is still married and if that's the case honey don't do it to yourself. If he did it to her how you know he isn't going to do the same to you. On top of that he has children that alone is something that you really need to think about are ready to play the step-mommy roll.
Be prepared to deal with the baby momma drama .
These are just a few things that I can think about off the top of my head that are important factors that must be considered.
If you got into this relationship as being the OTHER women that all faithfull women hate be prepared to deal with hell and also you will never never ever be able to trust no matter what you might tell youself you will never be able to trust him, In the back of your head there will always be that question. and you will always look for the signs.
2006-06-14 12:54:25 · answer #2 · answered by a_bug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it, this man is coming out a divorce with a woman he has children and spent years with. Do you really think that now that he is a free man that he is going to settle down with you. Yeah it may sound good now, but when he starts to cheat on you like he is doing his wife, then you will understand what I am saying. A man will only be a man,a divorced man will be single until he figures his self out. Give him some time in order to save heart break and give yourself some time to re-evaluate your morals. A man will not change for you, that is just who he is.
2006-06-14 11:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by *FLIRTACIOUS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best route considering you have a child, also, date until you know each other better. Moving in together is a big step and when children are involved not only getting attached it's best to take it extra slow. After time when you feel comfortable then think about moving in with him until then best advice live on your own and date.
2006-06-14 11:54:44 · answer #4 · answered by alone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey some of the best relationships star as friends. As far as moving in . Congrats i think it going to work out well. the only obstical will be the children and how they will take living with eachother.
2006-06-14 11:53:57 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥Soon to Be Mrs.F♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he getting divorced because you two are starting a life together?
2006-06-14 11:53:02 · answer #6 · answered by mother_flower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u guys are really seriuos about moving in together then go for it , Are all the kids getting along, that may cause a problem for u guys if their not
2006-06-14 11:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by monkeyhopelove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dad was in this same situation, except he was the one married, everything turned out perfectly fine with his girlfriend, they broke up in the end, but that was something that couldve easily been avoided, i say go for it if your in love
2006-06-14 11:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by Ethernaut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what ur heart tells ya.
2006-06-14 11:53:43 · answer #9 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok i think
2006-06-14 11:51:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋