2006-06-14 04:21:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He meant to say he needs to think about maybe he was so stress with your relationship now and maybe he was suffocated by the things going on and he needs to breath..yeah it will work just don't nag or demand more time..Men sometimes needs to retreat to their own cave...to be with themselves..just be with him all the time not physically but emotionally and mentally..trust him with all your might and after that time he will be his old self again and will be better for your relationship...
2006-06-14 04:27:13 · answer #1 · answered by effy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry to tell you but he might be trying to end it with you but just too chicken to say it right out. It's not the 'space' thing that should trouble you, it's the 'slow down' part that seems a bit ominous.
My advice to you? Say that's too bad, you were really enjoying the pace of the relationship. Then, say no problem and give him space and slow things down and in the meantime, don't even worry about him. Focus on you and your life and do things to take your mind off of it. To be honest, if it were me I would dump him but I know that's easier said than done...
2006-06-14 04:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by Miro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he needs space then you should give it to him even though it may be painful for you sometimes people need time apart to think about things. So don't call him for a while and see what happens he very well may call you in a few days because unfortunately we all want what we can't have. Maybe he's taken you for granted and he may not realize that when you're not there.
2006-06-14 04:25:54 · answer #3 · answered by honey27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times its better to take it slow in a relationship cause when your around each other to much you tend to start arguing a lot over the stupidest things like when your not always together you cant wait to see each other and that makes it easier and also take a lot of pressure off the relationship and makes it easier to communicate with each other trust is always good for a relationship
2006-06-14 04:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by mell14716 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? 6 months may seem like a long time but its just begining, maby he's getting scared of a comiting relationship an needs time to breath an think about how he realy feels. time is a funny thing it can be good to give him time if you want to know how he realy feels. its better to find out now rather than later.
2006-06-14 04:28:39 · answer #5 · answered by mom2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Space is always a good thing to get perspective. I know that it hurts but it might be the best thing for both of you. Its scarry when relationships move too fast.
2006-06-14 04:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by Krissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he means that he does not want to commit to you yet. He probably wants to go out with other girls. Give him time and space to get fresh air. He will come back if you do not pressure him to commit too quickly. Best of luck!
2006-06-14 04:31:04 · answer #7 · answered by adventuremantraveller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think ur hanging up together alot or having s e x alot just give'm the space he needs then see if he's telling the truth or he wanna dump u!!
2006-06-14 04:25:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is looking elswere. If he has not cut a pony from the herd and is riding her, then he has at least pulled the saddle out of the barn. Drop him like a hot potato.
2006-06-14 04:25:39 · answer #9 · answered by bildymooner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never heard of people getting back together after one of them "needs space." Write him off and move on.
2006-06-14 04:24:37 · answer #10 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋