we never fight. both my friend and his friends are in disfunctional relationships and fight all the time and yell and scream and go nuts. Is it good not to fight or do you think a fight here and there is healthy. personally. i hate fighting and any sort of drama. there is enough drama and crazieness to deal with with work, friends, family..why not have a perfect relationship with your significant other.
2006-06-14 04:12:31 · 8 answers · asked by AreYouForReal? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When my husband and I first got together we never fought at all and we are young, i am 18 he is 28. But after about a year we started to fight every now and again. There is nothing wrong with it. Everyone is going to disagree about something and the longer you are with someone, the more comfortable you get with them and the more comfortable you are, the more you are going to speak your mind and say something about something you might not like and the more you do that the more there is going to be fights
2006-06-14 04:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by ProudSexySouthernGirl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
While "Fighting" is subjective you have to remember that having a heated discussion is not necessarily a bad thing. Fighting is not a good thing and you should never want one in your relationship. A "Heated Discussion" is healthy if you have a difference of opinion. Now if you or him seem to think alike and agree on everything I guess this is alright, although it is very unlikely. We are different and will never agree on everything. Talk to your friends and be sure that their "dis function" is truly just that. Are they fighting or are they having heated discussions? I have been with the same guy for years and we have never had a "Fight". Although we have had "Heated Discussions". I will not fight with him because I love him wayyy tooo much? After 20 years, four children and six grand children we love each other more every day. Don't fight! But there will be times that you won't agree with what he may say or do! Be sure to talk every day and always appreciate what he does and what you do! Don't think too much on your friends because most people want someone to participate in the anger they are sharing! Be concerned but never take sides. Your side is with your guy! Keep up the good work!
2006-06-14 04:27:39 · answer #2 · answered by wonderingmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not fighting is an extremely good sign in a relationship. It shows that you connect on many different levels, that you respect one another, and that you see eye to eye on a good many subjects. It sounds as if you are in a very stable, caring, loving, and, most importantly, healthy relationship. Be happy that you have been blessed as such, because fighting is crazy, and you don't need that kind of stress: maintaining the relationship is stress enough!
2006-06-14 04:20:59 · answer #3 · answered by pilotmanitalia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its great if you can get along good enough to not have anything to fight about. but if you guys are holding anything back to avoid a fight then it will come around and blow up on you with a bigger fight then was really needed to resolve the issue. the one tip i would give is if anything at all comes up between you and him then you should talk about it before it gets built up on other things and makes a real problem. now i dont mean fight about it but just talk things over
2006-06-14 04:22:49 · answer #4 · answered by jesse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's healthy to have some disagreements, but going nuts is not. you can't think the same way all the time, but if you disagree, don't go and chew your man's head off. don't be jealous of your friends and their crazy relationships. they should be jealous of you and your good one.
2006-06-14 04:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by hg mccain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all relationships need disagreements because that is truth. There isn't 2 people in this world that can agree 100 % every single day of their life. so if you haven't argued then sounds like someone is just trying to please the other one without being honest!!! 100%...........
2006-06-14 04:35:19 · answer #6 · answered by JACKIE M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your relationship is too perfect its boring it needs some spice to make it last cos there you can test if how firm both of you hold for that relationship...
2006-06-14 04:20:28 · answer #7 · answered by effy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats not natural is it? sometimes making up can be a great experience.
2006-06-14 04:17:32 · answer #8 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋