2006-06-14 03:48:28 · 22 answers · asked by suvi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
No it is not. Thats a sign of abuse
2006-06-14 03:50:47 · answer #1 · answered by hotwheelswd31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh - depends on how possesive he is. If he wants to know everything you are doing every moment of the day and insists on meeting everyone you come into contact with, that is mildly obsessive and yes, that's bad.
If he threatens violence or gets angry because some other guy looks at you, probably bad.
If he gets annoyed at guys seriously staring you down or talking to your chest or asking you out, I don't think so.
My husband gets annoyed at that and I find it endearing. He is also protective of me when we are in public places. He doesn't try to control me but also doesn't like me getting too far away - especially at the Mall or wal-mart. He just wants to make sure I don't get hurt or get into a situation I can't control. He trusts me, he just doesn't trust anyone else with me. He is possesive but only in a safe defensive way.
2006-06-14 11:32:06 · answer #2 · answered by bubb1e_gir1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband was very possesive and jealous when we were dating, but after we got married which was four months ago, he is not possesive and jealous. He still is, but not as much. We have a really good relationship.
2006-06-14 11:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is the One who loves you really..But the shame is girls do not like guys who are possesive.But the truth is only Possesive guys love once in their life..But you have to differentiate Possesiveness with not having trust.
2006-06-14 10:51:19 · answer #4 · answered by Shabeer A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No watch out for possesiveness it could lead to other possible dangerous things.
2006-06-14 10:55:15 · answer #5 · answered by arreis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not ok. An early sign that the man could get abusive if you don't comply. Does he also want to know everything about your whereabouts? Your contacts? Your work? Your money? It is not love. It is insecurity, and will often lead to "I'll gain control over her one way or another."
2006-06-14 10:53:26 · answer #6 · answered by browneyedgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys should be possesive about their gf's but being very possesive is not good.its like taking away ur freedom.
2006-06-14 10:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by live_let.live 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, NO, NO, that is not OK. It is a sign of abuse (if he has already not started) If I were you I would RUN, before it turns violent. I may start out with him being possessive, but then he will start being controlling, and then is could lead to verbal and physical abuse. I would get out now before it is too late.
2006-06-14 10:53:39 · answer #8 · answered by blueeyes05_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what you consider "very posessive". If he doesn't like you going to strip clubs, it's fine. If he doesn't like you seeing people you've been friends with for years, or doesn't like you going out without him (and it's not a safety concern), it may be troublesome. If you are concerned, you should discuss this with a couples counselor.
2006-06-14 13:20:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO...it's NOT OK!!! You are a person not a possession. He will end up abusing you by picking your friends, or taking your car keys or even keeping you from you family. Dump this loser NOW!
2006-06-14 10:56:37 · answer #10 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no those are the types that won't let you do anything but be with him, and if you talk to another guy, even though that guy is a friend the possessive guy will get mad and probably get abusive and tell you not to talk to any guy. be careful
2006-06-14 10:53:37 · answer #11 · answered by frog lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋