How to be a good husband?

Answer 1

Be your wife's best friend :)

Don't let anything get between you and her, always keep the communications open, let each other know that you are for each other. Do things together, no matter how little or unimportant they may seem. Let each other in on what's going on at home, at work, with friends or other family members... including the things that bug you!

Be honest and brave enough to be you - to tell her what you like and don't like. Tell her how she could make you happy and bring the best out of you. And let her do the same. Be equals - meet each other on the same level then bring each other higher. Together you'll fulfill dreams better!

I know these are easier said than done, but since you bothered to ask I'm sure you do want a great relationship. And when you want something, you'll be willing to do something about it - that's a good start. Of course you have to be warned to have patience and perseverance, faith, hope, and LOVE. Wish you a good life! :)

Answer 2

look i have had some pretty crappy men in my life but one. and i am not talking about my husband. but what i want in a husband is this.
1.always be there for her
2.never do anything that u really cant do together
3.help take care of the kids no matter what that means
4.do not treat her like she under u treat her as an equal in the marrige
5.if u want her to stay home with the kids so u dont have to pay a sitter dont give her crap when she ask for money to do what ever.
6.never hit her no matter how mad u might get
7. never hit her while she is carring your kids
8. never force her to do anything she doesnt want to do
9. never force her to have sex if she doesnt want to
10. last but not least always tell her u love her rather she says it back or not she does but just might be mad.

Answer 3

We have been married 35 yrs. Reading your question I started pondering what has made my mate such a good husband. First off, I know he loves me. He tells me daily. Puts notes in my lunch sometimes. He has always encouraged anything I wanted to do-jobwise or hobby. He is quick to help around the house without me asking him. Flowers come for me on no occasion days rather than birthdays or anniversaries. He says that way I am always surprised to get them. He's right. He stands up for me
when ever there is a family-in law arguement. He is my life and soul mate and we are so blessed to have found each other. May you be as fortunate. There are many things that make a good spouse. Nobody is perfect. Just be thoughtful, helpful and caring and it will come back to you. And love her with all your heart.

Answer 4

simple, easy answer....
SHOW APPRECIATION!!
that's it! everyone is talking about love her and be loyal and stuff, that's all great and I'm sure that you do but beyond all that.... show her appreciation. Simple little things like a love note hidden in her pocket, will go a long way to helping her feel more confident in the relationship. These things don't have to be for occasions.... the best times to do things are when she least expects them. after a "dispute", whether you've resolved it or not, sit down and write out some things about her that you love and appreciate. leave these notes in her underwear drawer, pocket of her pants, coat, under the plates in the kitchen.. whereever she'll find them. She'll love finding them and you'll be rewarded with love and appreciation too.
Use this one..
I love when you look at me
cause I know that for a second,
I crossed your mind.

Best of luck

Answer 5

To be a good husband do this:

Always strive to make her feel secure. That means pay the bills on time, come home from work on time, talk to her.

She will reward you greatly!

Answer 6

You can be a good husband, but I don't think they will be satisfied.

Answer 7

I will ask my husband and get back to you. He is the best. God threw away the mold when he made him!

Answer 8

dont cheat
bring home a good paycheck
provide for wife kids etc
sacrifice your dreams wants and desires to support thiers

Answer 9

If you have to ask, you're not ready to be a husband.

Answer 10

Just be there for your wife, for better or for worse. Love her even if she just got out of bed, has no make-up on, accidentally threw away your newspaper and burnt your breakfast. =)