To Guys only (well girls also -- if you can answer)?

Question

how can you tell if you really love a woman, or you just wanna sleep with her?

Answer 1

Great question. love or lust .

love is something many do not really know what it means and is often mistaken for lust. Love if and when felt can not be mistaken for lust. Love blows lust right out of the water. and puts it on the back burner.

Now you wish to know how you can tell when a man is in love and when he just wants to do the funky monkey. well it is simple because men are not so complex. the first sign (get your pens and paper out ladies). He gets this innocent like a puppy about to pee on your foot look. his eyes weaken and can't seem to pull them away from you. This look means he adores you. when you walk in a room if you listen you will hear a whimper yep that puppy again. when you walk out you hear a disappointing moan it is soft and most dont know to listen for it. He will often break guy time just to be around you. when you kiss him no matter if it is on the cheek he will have a grin on his face. Men become dazed and in like a dream like state. Now listen close - this does not last for long a week tops then he starts regaining his male pride. does not mean he lost his love no way. if you dont catch it in a week chances are your gonna have to wing it.
The hard part is all men want sex and they want it bad and the more trashy acting (acting being the key word here) the better. They want it from beginning to the end and no matter if it is day one of love or day one of lust. but if he loves you rejecting sex will not make him act like a jerk but rest assure he is going to keep asking. if it is just lust well guys can be jerks yes.
or maybe it is just this way for me LOL

Answer 2

most people dont know this but love is actually defined in the bible. and its not the same meaning as you usually hear in everyday talk.

to most people love is that feeling when you really like someone alot or even lust for them.

the true meaning is of love is when everything you do for the person is strictly FOR THEM.

for example: you love your child so even though your child just lays there and screams at you 24/7/365 you continue to change the diapers and get puked on. you dont get anything out of changing the diapers and honestly it isnt that much fun, but you do it every time without fail, because you LOVE them.

some parents (usually dads) always find a way to take off when the child is young because they just arent able to give all the time without getting something in return. somehow they always say "i love you" even though they clearly love themselves way more.

why did i just go through all that? simple...

do you want to sleep with this woman because you are desperate to make her happy? dying to give her children that you will care for forvever? you want to see her in physical exctasy? you want her to know that you will do anything for her?

or

you wanna show her how good in bed you are?

she's really hot and you'd like to get that coochie?

Answer 3

when u wake up in the morning and she's the 1st thing that pops in your head, and the last thing when u go 2 sleep, when u don't c or talk 2 her 4 a day or 2 and u feel that emptyness inside, the thought of seeing her again brings u happiness, that's real love.

Answer 4

If you are younger than 21 then it's just for the bed play. No person knows what love is until the have been an adult and lived alone and are aware of the things they want in life. Please don't be offended, but this is true. Best wishes

Answer 5

Why don't you sleep with her a few times and see how you feel after. If it is just infatuation you'll feel it and it'll have been fun. If it's love you may find out that she's someone you can't live without.. in any case YOU ROCK

Answer 6

if you love her, you go out on dates that are really fun and romantic, not just really romantic, that probably means you just want to hurry and get to possible sex. Watch him, and see how he acts around you. If he's always smiling and acts a little likes hes a good friend and a boyfriend too, if you see him go really far out of his way to make sure youre happy or something, thats when you know its love. Other than that, just watch out!!!

Answer 7

If he loves you he will not want to take the chance of making a baby before he has committed to you and married you. Why would someone that loves you take the chance of knocking you up. Now, once he gets married to you he should show his love by trying to bang you every night forever.

A lot of girls get this backwards by letting some Joe bang them until they get married and then cut him off to see if she still loves her. All she gets is a pissed of Joe.

Answer 8

I know when I close my eyes and see the two of us just walking hand in hand along the beach, or I'll see something in a store window and instantly recall something she had told me. Sex yeah that's part of the attraction I'd be a liar if I said it wasn't but not the only thing.

Answer 9

By the time invested. If he enjoys her company every where they go by themselves and around friends and families, etc,etc, then that is showing that you really want to invest in this person by giving your time to be with them. If he just wants to sleep with her, then you will see very little time invested. Just enough time to get what he wants. I hope you can tell how "time" is so important. We all have very little to work with and you can't buy it. Time is one of the mos valuable possesions we have. I hope this answers your question.

Answer 10

Well at the beginning, we just want to have sex with you. That our primary objective. If we hang around longer, we may want to do things with you (Dinner, Movies, Plays) all that stuff. If you bring you around our friends its a bigger deal and then once we mention you to the family, I would say love is in the air.