I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years and we've been through a lot together. When I first met him and was using his computer (at his parents) I noticed that he had the typical collection of porn clips but that several of them were of underage girls (titles like 16 yr old, preteen sexy girls, 15 yr old hotties, etc) so I deleted the underage ones and he didn't seem to care. Now that we have a place together, He has once again started up a mini porn clip collection, but yesterday when I went into our media downloader there were a bunch of clips downloading and once again several were of young girls (2 15 year olds, 1 12-13 year old, 2 teen) and I don't know what to do. I don't know how to talk to him without him getting very upset, angry, or defensive. Help!
2006-06-14 03:37:23 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Calm yourself down and when you feel positive about things, approach him for a sit-down discussion on his continued unhealthy interest in this subject. Talk about it openly, and in the context of your acceptance of his occasional indulgence in adult stuff. Ask him if he agrees with pedophilia and if not, the reasons for this continued interest. Help him to piece his actions together and make the right conclusion.
2006-06-14 03:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by Son of Gap 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that's kind of gross. And if he has to be downloading "underage" porn that would say a little about him. I haven't read the under passage to your question. But, please don't take this the wrong way, someone who looks up "kid porn" has some problems. If he is doing this then he doesn't fully love you to most that he can. If he really did then he wouldn't need to see kid porn, he has you. Also you have to ask yourself, do I want to leave him, because if you didn't want to leave him then you wouldn't be asking this question. You would just be there with him and his kid porn. Also if you can't talk to him without him getting mad or upset, then he might not be right for you. He should be able to listen to what ever you have to say no matter what it is, if there is truly love. I'm not trying to ruin anything that you have going, but you have to ask yourself is this what you want. You know the answer, you know that you mean everything in this world, because if you didn't exist then this world would not exist.
2006-06-14 03:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by Pablo Pescado 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Its ok to download porn but knowingly downloading under age porn should not have its place. I'm all for it as long as the girls are 18 or older. If he gets defensive then do you really want to live with this person forever anyways. Leave before he gets more violent.
2006-06-14 03:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by TONY C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's kind of a hard one, I would just say what if you down loaded the wrong person and it was actually a cop and they cam and arrested you. And if he gets defensive then he likes looking at kids and you need to leave his *** and call the cops your self. You can't go through steps of life with a man that might molest his own children. I don't know him I'm not saying that he would but you never know
2006-06-14 03:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by sexzbich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him. He has a real problem. As the parent of small girls I am appalled that any grown man would want to see underage girls in compromising positions. Would you want your children to be exploited in this way?
2006-06-14 03:41:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that should be counted on no matter if he replaced into actually downloading porn or merely hunting for some thing linked with baby porn. that's a criminal offense to have baby pornography on ones pc.
2016-10-14 03:56:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police on him, why did you let him get away with it from the first time. He is a freak and should be in jail.
2006-06-14 03:41:44 · answer #7 · answered by J999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have the police come and see the porn
then move out
there is nothing wrong with porn but not little kids
2006-06-14 03:44:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Porn is very destructive to relationships and if you are smart, you won't start one with someone who looks at it.
2006-06-14 03:42:23 · answer #9 · answered by IveGotTheAnswer! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Peadophilia is wrong. Best get rid of him before he goes too far and the police arrive.
2006-06-14 03:41:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋