Are you in a relationship like that right now? What motivated you to do it? How did you feel or are feeling through it? Any guilt? What makes you keep going?
Please dont judge! Keep it to yourself... I just want honest opinion. No one's a saint - we all a sinner.
2006-06-14 03:02:22 · 19 answers · asked by Matrix 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What brought me to hiim was a fukked up relationship I was in. What keep me with him was the love, attention, affection and time that he gave me to. What made me leave him was the fact that no matter how much he said I love you.. I miss you... I need you, he would not leave his wife, even after 3yrs.
Do, I regret it........ No, I love him very much still to this day, I believe that he IS my soulmate, the man that I was meant to be with. Do, I feel guilty no, cause we loved each other and love can never be wrong. Would I do it aging? Yes and NO.. I have become bitter, angry and really judgemental with men, I compare everyone to him. He was a great father, friend, lover and companions.... Again, I feel he is my souldmate. I am happy that we are no longer together, but I have cried and still cry over him.
I always will.
2006-06-14 03:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by Sunshine_Diva 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have dated a married man... I was 19 and he was 28. What motivated me to do it?? I thought I was in love with him and he would leave his wife and young sons to be with me (ha!! Lessons learned!). I had no guilt at the time, as I was young, but I would think twice about it now probably... no good every comes of it, and these men are not really that trustworthy.
At the end of the day, its the person who is married that has the responsibility.
2006-06-14 10:06:17 · answer #2 · answered by Violent and bored 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't. However attractive I think a man is, if I find out he's in a relationship or married it's hands off. This is out of respect for the woman. Also if he is prepared to have an affair with you while in a relationship with someone else who is to stop him doing the same to you, a while down the line? In my experience men who have affairs turn out to be unrelaiable and are best left alone. It is awful being on a the receiving end of this.
I am sorry to say I do not approve of women who habitually or otherwise go with married men. I think it shows a lack of moral integrity. Find someone single and don't fall for the "my wife doesn't understand me" baloney. They are normally after a quick shag and nothing else. That's my opinion.
2006-06-14 11:24:23 · answer #3 · answered by Kazcatlover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love and feelings have no boundaries, so a married man is not exceptional. Sometimes women fall for men before they know they are married and men in their nature show complete love to single women even when they know they are married. Going out with a married man is just one life's experience that you can do away with time and it is very easy to get fade up with a married man because of his behaviour of not giving you all the time you need with him. And when you leave one married man, you dont ever want to get engaged in such affair again in your life, then you move on to wanting what is yours alone and you would have considered passed that lusting age for married men and have gained the experience in life and will always make you a better person to appreciate a single man who truely love you. Married men are not worthy it even if we are sinners, if you can avoid, the better for you.
2006-06-14 10:15:36 · answer #4 · answered by God you are my all in all in Jesus' name 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I'm in a relationship with a married man. I'm married too. We've been seeing each other for two and a half years. He chased me and chased me and I guess I was flattered. We both know it's wrong and we've both tried to end it at various times but always end up together again. I think we're in love with each other. I can't speak for him but I've felt no guilt. We've never talked about leaving our partners and/or being together, that's not an option. It's just an affair.
2006-06-14 10:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by Len 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a married woman for a short while. Being honest, and I know that this is really cruel, but it was a challenge for me. I enjoyed the chase and the fact that she was willing to put me first over her husband, yet it was her husband she was committed to. In the end she got to involved for my liking, so I had to end it. She was pretty upset. Plus it was all my fault, because to me it was just a game, but it wasn't to her (which I didn't realise). Any way I have never seen her since.
2006-06-14 10:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by chrisnewcars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I have never dated or would date a married man as my Mother taught me morals and it's also stated in the bible as a sin to go to hell for!!
Why go for sloppy seconds? What is the attraction of dating a married guy in the first place?
2006-06-14 10:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by Sweetcakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No never have dated a married man aside from the one I married. I don't think a relationship like that would be very fulfilling. Always having to hide, worried about getting caught, ruing his or your reputation. The fear and the lies I don't think would be worth the fleeting moments of satisfaction.
2006-06-14 10:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by bubb1e_gir1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i did date a married man but didnt know it until i was knee deep in the relationship. I finally after 6 months said this isnt for me and i dumped him.
2006-06-14 10:06:38 · answer #9 · answered by arreis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some people do it for the challenge but it nearly always ends up with one or more people becoming heartbroken. I could not have someone else's heartbreak on my conscience even if I didn't know them, let alone open myself up to it. If there are children involved then it's ten times worse.
2006-06-14 11:13:07 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋