We have gone out several times. He has made it clear that he likes me, but he looks indifferent sometimes. I don't know if he wants just to have sex with me or if he LIKES ME FOR REAL.
I want him to feel for me, because he seems to be a nice guy. What can I do to make him feel for me?
How should I behave? Should I be just indifferent towards him?
Please give me some help.
2006-06-14 02:41:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel that what you need to know is just be yourself and relax, don't rush this because you might scare him off but it would help to send a couple of signals that would get him interested.
For example ask him out to lunch and tell him that it is dutch so he will feel comfortable
Or go to a movie together and try going to the park or some favorite place you like to go and invite him to come along. This would be good so he could see the other side of you the more relaxed side that should warm him up so that he will be able to respond to you better.
He could feel you if you only have faith in yourself and in the situation that it will work. Confidence my girl is what you need and if you show that confidence you will get somewhere. Just remember this men will respond if you show an interest and give him something to be interested in you about.
Don't give up and keep shooting for the stars and Good luck I have plenty of faith the this is a good answer that I gave you and I hope that you and him both get something going.
Email me if it goes okay my email is: Beagirl40@Yahoo.com
Peace!!!:)
2006-06-14 02:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 15⤊ 2⤋
If a boy likes you and you want him to feel for you, there are several approaches available.
If you are courageous ... use direct confrontation approach. That means to tell him what are your expectation regarding his person.
The only bad thing that can happen is to reject your proposition, not knowing the purity of your heart and your good intentions. This is the recommended method because it shows that both of you are adults and look in the future with trust and consideration regarding the other person.
Another direct approach is to post in front of him and look at his face, kiss his cheeks without saying a word and LEAVE. If he is smart enough he will follow you and ask what was all about. Now you have the opportunity to share your oppinion about your needs.
If you chicken out, and are afraid to confront him, use your influence to find what he likes in order to get into his graces. Maybe, with the complicity of some friends, you two can end-up toghether at a party with couples. If everyone is making out with it's partner, you'll probably end-up doing the same. Eventually, in time, when you get some courage, you will talk to him about being toghether as a couple. Under any circumstances you should NOT show indifference towards his person. Au contraire, you should show him that you care about him, and want to be with him as long as you are respected. Keep in mind that the respect must be mutual.
Either way ... I wish you ... good luck.
2006-06-14 03:55:41 · answer #2 · answered by Popescu F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember one thing, "talk is cheap" and actions speak louder than words. Sure, he may want to have sex with you but if he really likes you and wants to be with you and sex is put on the back burner by you, he may not be thrilled but he will accept it because he really is interested in YOU and wants to be with YOU.
Act yourself around him and if he seems indifferent, put him off for a day or two in a nice way of course and let him wonder to himself if you are acting indifferent towards him. If he does really care about you, he will make the effort to act differently.
2006-06-14 02:57:32 · answer #3 · answered by 2179 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be Yourself always. If he seems to like you then there is a start. Do not rush anything. Also if you have a slightest doubt about sex with this guy, don't do it. Get to know as much as possible about each other. Also remember that you have no control over other peoples feelings, so put your cards on the table and see what happens.
2006-06-14 02:52:54 · answer #4 · answered by So4real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you been out several times then it's not all about the sex. I'm sure he would love too, but let your guard down. Now finding out if he cares for you is simple, is he in to your conversation concern about your well being, does he call you all the time, how does he treat you in public? You'll know just be sweet OK!
2006-06-14 02:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Juz b the way u r. If u try 2b indifferent u may even lose him. Tell him that even u like him a lot. Love cant b hidden my friend even if silly humans want it 2.
Who knwz may b u r with ur Mr.Perfect...........?
so express 2 him watevr u feel......... Al d best.
2006-06-14 02:49:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be straight and honest...
Just tell him that you also feel for him, but you don't like him being indifferent towards you.
2006-06-14 02:45:58 · answer #7 · answered by Drowned in English! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What feelings do you want him to feel for you? He obviously likes you thats some where and if u are hoping for love, liking is a good starting point.So leave it as that and let it grow...
2006-06-14 02:47:17 · answer #8 · answered by bimby babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in any relation be urself.know wats his turn ons,he should like u accordin 2 ur mail.so show him more care.make him know that ur for him all his life.a man wants carin frm a girl than any.
2006-06-14 02:48:43 · answer #9 · answered by rahul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am gonna tell u this...don't let him have sex with you...amke him wait. Guys always want what they can't have. Don't show him how much you like him. Make him want you!
2006-06-14 02:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by sexii4m3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋