When people used to judge me first, and pass bad comments like, she's pretty-so she's conceited, or cuuss me out and call me a bia before I even talked to them, I would usually give them a smile, and say have a nice day or something. But lately I can't just do that. It's getting to me. What should I do?
2006-06-14 02:41:11 · 8 answers · asked by Quitty 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Confront them.
"Why would you say such a thing?"
It will leave them speechless, and they will think twice before prejudging someone again.
2006-06-14 02:44:54 · answer #1 · answered by A Baby Ate My Dingo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show them that you're real. That you can take it.
People are inherently insecure about themselves -- we all are.
Sometimes, they might be very smart and loving, but lacking something -- if you have it, they resent it.
It almost does sound a bit, that you think you have too much of it.
Sometimes, it's fun to just let folks have at you.
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Maybe some of the source of this is what you eminate. Maybe a long look in the mirror doing something other than self admiration and/or make-up might do some good. You might answer your own question.
Good luck -- don't take things personally.
2006-06-14 09:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice if u r treated nice.
They take u for a push over if u be polite anyway.
Don't. U have a life and u have a worth.
All the best in life Quitty!
2006-06-14 09:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them or look them straight in the eye without flinching. They'll wish they were never born.
but personally I think your way is the best.
2006-06-14 09:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
JKust start acting like the ***** they think you are. I act like a beyotch all the time and I have people worshipping me!
2006-06-19 02:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by Samba Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who do that are filled with envy. I know it's hard but continue to "kille me with kindness"
2006-06-14 09:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by squashpatty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore them like you think they are talking to someone else.
2006-06-14 09:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by rkroxmysox915 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them you are more than you appear and kill them with kindness
2006-06-14 10:50:49 · answer #8 · answered by ♥My 2 Cents♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋