messaging her. She lives a block from us. He said he would quit. But now he deletes his messages so I don't know what's going on, if I can trust him, or what to do
2006-06-14 02:39:01 · 8 answers · asked by swtnsasc92 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go online and click on history, you can tell were hes been
2006-06-14 02:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by Camaro 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a dilemma, no doubt. Your feelings of mistrust seem to be validated by his secrecy on the matter. I would speak to him openly about how you truly feel about this new 'hobby' he has found and state your concerns. Be upfront and honest, remaining calm throughout.
If he doesn't respect your wishes and continues with this on-line affair, made worst by her living a block away, i think you may have to re-access your relationship with him. You might have to decide a bit of time out is in order to sort out if you truly wish to stay with someone who is hurting you so.
It's hard, I can only imagine, but it really isn't fair for him to continue making you feel 'paranoid' and still have your love. It just isn't right. I do hope that your talk with him works out and for what it's worth, I feel your pain.
2006-06-14 02:48:12 · answer #2 · answered by v_stroke_28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been with him this long trust him, but you are your only judge on that one. Guys will be Guys though. If you and him are meant to be then it will be that way. If you have seond thoughts at all stop and rethink your relationship. Do what you think is best for you and your relationship.
2006-06-14 03:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by fhockey1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know what to tell. If you been with him that long I would think you would trust him and have no doubt in your mind.
Guys will be guys though.
Goodluck....and don't accuse until you have full proof
2006-06-14 02:43:07 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
teach him a lesson. go to a dating site like webdatedotcom or something then look for someone you can flirt with. give him a taste of his own medicine.
2006-06-14 02:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can look at history to see where he has been but he can denied that it was him. he might say that can a hacker. tell him how u feel. put your foot down tell him you will not put up with this no more
2006-06-14 11:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its time to get someone else. before you do check on them to see if he is doing something that he shouldnt be doing.
2006-06-14 02:44:09 · answer #7 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant trust him as far as you can throw him.
2006-06-14 02:43:27 · answer #8 · answered by tbird00719 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋