I am now divorced to my hubby of 3 1/2 years. (We were together 7 years total). He was cheating on me with my cousin. We have been divorced for over a year now, and at least once a day I think of him. A song on the radio will remind me of him, I will pass a chopper and want to call him to tell him about it (we were bikers), or even something funny will happen and I think, "OMG, my ex would get a kick out of this".
Since the divorce I moved out on my own . I am single because I am still not healed from the hurt he and my cousin caused (they are getting married next month supposedly). He was my first love, and my best friend. He understood me like no one else- I would not even have to say a word and he would know my thoughts- I miss that. It intriques me that he knew me so well and I have yet to find someone like that- He made me laugh, he was spontaneous and made life exciting. I was pretty anal about things and he took that tendency right out of me.
If I had the chance I would let him say he missed me- I would let him say he made the mistake (hear say thru friends he has said this to them) and then, I would have some closure and I would know he made the mistakes, not me-
2006-06-14 01:30:32
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answered by Rae 3
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Lost love? Maybe, my daughters father was my "lost" love, he took off while I was 7 months pregnant with a stripper, I was young and feel like the relationship wasnt really ended, I mean I was never able to get over it, I had to just move on. If I had the chance.....id spit in his face for leaving us the way he did! But I'd say thank you for showing me what a real man is all about, my fiance!! He's been her father figure, any guy can be a dad but it takes a man to be a father!!
2006-06-14 01:26:33
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answered by face9202004 3
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My boyfriend, I didn't lose him, were just far away from each other and for almost 3 weeks now I didn't hear from him, maybe he's busy with work, which I understand specially hisfield of work, diplomat.
If I have a chance to talk to him now, I will tell him that I made a wrong decision of not going with him when he ask me before he left to America then I should not worrying and wondering what he is up to specially this past few weeks that I didn't hear from him. He is a lovely person and there's no dull moment when were together, he is one of a kind and if he will ask me again to stay with him, my answer is YES, FOREVER.
2006-06-14 02:28:31
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answered by princess 2
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I've been in a an identical bind lately and it is particularly well to listen to it from any person else. I consider regularly whilst now we have each motive to think a man or woman entered our lifestyles for a motive, and the tip of our time period with them left us with unresolved disorders and playing cards we nonetheless hadn't performed- it is particularly tough to allow move. Sometimes I consider it could be extra soothing to acquire a certain "No, this man or woman will in no way circle again into your lifestyles, as you desire them to" than to have the probability lingering approximately in my head. I consider my sentimental aspect real resents the probability of letting move. It simply turns out to betray what as soon as was once. The perception of completely casting this man or woman out from my lifestyles offers me a thoroughly counter-effective separation anxiousness. And I consider whilst a aspect of our spirit's progress has been aided by means of any person, to reduce strings with that man or woman is to reduce strings with an endearing aspect of our possess soul. I'm brooding about if this heightened interior chaos is a aspect of the 12 months wrapping matters up. As the planets shift new frontiers gift themselves, however I'm now not certain I'm able for the difference.
2016-09-09 01:22:04
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answered by kearney 3
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This might be a little off the subject, but I lost touch my my childhood best friend about 8 years ago. I started dating this girl who in retrospect wasn't a good one. Well, parted rather bitterly, and didn't speak afterwards. He died about 3 years ago, and I never got to appologise. I think of him often.
2006-06-14 01:33:06
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answered by Oilfield 4
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i have ended my relationship with my ex bf more than a year ago. but i still think about him...till recently...we broke up coz of condition not coz of fight. and he was my first love. maybe those are the reasons it hard to let go.
2006-06-14 01:24:48
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answered by Andri 2
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actually i lost the love of my family and i think about them every single day
so yes it's lost love
2006-06-14 01:24:38
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answered by bandori 5
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I think about "the one"...
She told me that she was "THE ONE"... and she told me... that SOMEDAY... Id figure it out...
She was right on both scores.
We're now both married... to the WRONG people.
2006-06-14 01:24:58
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answered by Anonymous
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it is feel of mind. Past moment is allways a history.
2006-06-14 01:26:30
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answered by Shahanur 1
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We connect we accept we regret and we FORGET :(
2006-06-14 01:30:07
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answered by Idiot No 1 1
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